Guys aren’t too hard to figure out, they like sports, girls, and anything that can fill their tummies. But when it comes to showing someone they don’t like them, they may be a little elusive. From putting you in the friendzone and not giving you special treatment, to actually telling you they aren’t interested, these are 10 signs a guy doesn’t like you!
Have you been crushing on a guy, but you still aren’t sure how he feels about you? Well if he is treating you more like a friend, he probably doesn’t like you. Does he only plan group dates, and never wants to treat you to a night on the town alone? Or if he isn’t sending you sweet messages or gifts just because. Men will make the person they care about feel like the most special person in the world. If he doesn’t go out of his way to treat you special when you are in groups or alone, then most likely he just sees you as a friend, and doesn’t like you romantically.
If a guy isn’t into you, he will also not make any time to give you any special attention. Does he not notice you are looking great, or that you got a new haircut? If he doesn’t compliment you or give you attention, then he probably doesn’t like you. Or, if he never calls just to see how you are or how your day was, then it means he isn’t thinking about you. If you are out with friends, and he doesn’t seem to be giving you any special attention, it’s because he doesn’t want to. When a guy likes a girl, he will try to get her attention, and will always give her attention.
Not only will you get no special treatment, but he may ask you for lady advice. This should be a no brainer, but if he is vocal about seeing someone else, it means he doesn’t like you. If he feels ok talking to you about other women, it means he doesn’t see you in a romantic light. Guys have a tendency to talk to their friends about their romantic interests, and in this case, you are that friend. If he did like you, he would make sure to let you know that you are the only girl he is interested in.
Do you find yourself calling first, texting first, or the only one trying to plan dates? If you are doing all the work, and he isn’t making an effort, he probably doesn’t like you. When guys like someone, they will do everything in their power to be around that person. If you do finally get some alone time, and all he does is talk about himself, and makes no effort to see how you are, he’s not interested in you. So when he isn’t taking the time to talk to you, or get to know you, it’s time to move on.
Guys hate hurting girls’ feelings, so they may try to tell you they aren’t interested in you, but in a very subtle way. They will compliment you on being such a great friend, and make sure you know where you stand in their eyes. If all else fails, and they know you aren’t getting the signs, a guy will flat out tell you he doesn’t like you. It will take a lot to get a guy to admit they don’t like you, so if you are at this point, you are at the point of no return. Believe him when he says he doesn’t like you, and do what you have to do to get over him.