Breaking up is rarely easy. Of course, there are times when you can remain friendly with your ex, but that doesn’t mean that ending your romantic relationship will be a piece of cake. Speaking of cake, you may be tempted to binge on your favorite sweets after a breakup. However, this probably won’t help you get back at your ex. Even if you don’t want him/her back, it may be important to you to let your ex know that he/she is missing out on the fun and excitement that comes with being with you.
Essentially, living well is the best way to get revenge. Making sure your ex sees you living well is also effective (especially in the early stages of the breakup), to a certain extent. Of course, it’s never a good idea to cause physical harm to your ex (even though the temptation could be very strong), but there are some ways that you can make them truly regret ever letting you go. Keep in mind that when you’re getting back at your former love, don’t put your safety or reputation in danger. After all, you don’t want the revenge to backfire. Here are 10 effective ways to get back at your ex.
10 Change Your Wardrobe
9 Get A Makeover
8 Write A Blog Or Public Online Journal
7 Implement The Silent Treatment
6 Work Out
5 Make a Career Change
4 Get Moving (Literally)
3 Prioritize Your Friendships
2 Go On Vacation
1 Be Open To Love
Most importantly, make it clear to your ex that you’ve moved on but still want to make them regret the breakup a little by being open to love. If you have mutual friends, don’t be afraid to do a little harmless flirting with someone else the next time you’re at a party that your ex is attending. Don’t leave the house without looking your best. Do the hard work of getting through the hurt, confusion and pain that comes with a breakup and be truthful with yourself. Maintain a positive attitude and don’t let your ex see you behaving in a sad or defeated manner. This may not help your ex to realize that the two of you should get back together, but it could actually increase his/her respect for you as you move on with your life.
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