In movies, in novels, or in our everyday lives, we can constantly see or read about a group of girl friends hanging around, talking and trying to figure out why a guy didn’t call any of them back. There have been countless books and theories centered around trying to figure out the mystery behind a guy’s mind, such as the popular book and movie He’s Just Not That Into You, written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. The fact of the matter is that there are any number of reasons a guy might not call you back. As illustrated in the movie How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, women, and even men, sometimes have these little traits or tendencies that typically scare off a prospective beau, and in other words, decrease the chances of a potential second, or even third date in the near future. With that said, here is a list of 10 things girls do on dates that result in a certainty that he'll never call you back and ask you out again. Who knows, you might learn a thing or two before your next big date.
10 Flirting With Other People In Front of Him
9 Don’t Give Him A Chance To Speak
8 You Talked About Your Ex All Night
7 You Invited Your Girlfriends (or Boyfriends) Along On The Date
Sure, it’s fun to have a group night once in a while, but when you’re just starting to get to know the guy, you need to give him time to get to know you, before he gets to know your friends…
6 You Didn’t Let Him Get His Way
5 Talk About Inappropriate Topics
Sharing a sexy secret or two on a date is perfectly acceptable; however, telling your date all about your latest trip to the urologist, or any other inappropriate information, is not a recommended move and usually comes across as a major turn-off.
4 Criticize Him Too Much
One of the key things to remember if you want a guy to call you back is to make sure you act like a date, not like your date’s mom. In meeting someone knew, it’s extremely easy to make a simple mistake that’ll derail all hopes of a possible relationship. A major mistake that some people simply can’t stop themselves from making is critiquing the person they’re on a date with. It takes a while to settle into a pattern and either deal with or learn to love a person’s quirks, so some people might have a tendency to harp on a guy’s mistakes, such as his inability to style his hair properly or his propensity to wear too much cologne.
3 You Weren’t Acting Like Yourself
When we’re in a new relationship or just starting to get to know a person, we all do little things to make ourselves seem more attractive to the people we’re interested in; wearing make-up, fixing our hair, etc. But be careful to remember there’s a difference between wearing padded cups and faking your entire personality or looks, when you just start dating a new guy.
2 You Slept With Him Too Quickly
While this may sound similar to a lecture you heard from your mother, or perhaps your grandmother, sometimes it doesn’t hurt to think about keeping your milk before you start giving it out for free. Many men, though not all, are usually looking to score a little action when they go out with someone they’re not serious about yet, some men even consider the act of getting into the bedroom immediately like winning a prize. So sleeping with a guy right away, such as on the first date, might make him feel like the winner and make him lose all interest in ever calling you back.
1 Being Too Clingy
One of the most common reasons a guy has ever given for not calling someone back is that they simply weren’t interested in a clingy date. In relationships, there are often varying definitions of what constitutes as clingy behavior, but texting a guy a few hundred times in one night or calling him your boyfriend within the first twenty minutes of a date is probably one of the quickest ways to ensure that he’s not calling you… and to make him file a restraining order against you.
First dates are supposed to be relaxed and a tester for how a future relationship might turn out. But pressing fast-forward on a first date with a new guy would not only place pressure on the relationship, but also scare the person you’re going out with. Remember that this is only the beginning, so relax and keep you’re hands to yourself if you suddenly have the urge to write and e-mail him a hundred-page sonnet describing the love you have for one another.
Sources: complex.com, wsj.com, askmen.com, gurl.com, match.com, hercampus.com
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