“Why can’t we do that?”, “OMG you say ‘no’ to everything!”, “Why can’t we just try that again? You might like it this time!”How typical are all of these statements when you are in a relationship? Guys have a tendency to assume that their girlfriends, sex buddies or whatever title they have anointed her with, just automatically has to like the things that they like; especially when it comes to fun in the bedroom. Take a step back and consider why she is saying "no" to so many things, maybe listen to what she has to say and you will understand why she will not do what you are requesting. Sex should not be a game of push and pull (unless you are into that), it should be mutual pleasure and exciting. Where is the fun in one person enjoying something and the other person being completely bored and not into it at all? Stop wondering why she won’t do certain things in the bedroom, and start finding things she will do and that both of you can enjoy together. So yes, some girls have no “sexy” bone in their body and vice versa, but it is on you to find a girl who is willing and able to try things with you and maybe even enjoy things that your last partner found repulsive. So next time you hear, “no, I won’t do that” really stop and think about what that "no" means and where it is coming from; then think of a different way to make another intimate act exciting for her and you.
10 “It’s Not Intimate”
9 “It Is Inappropriate”
8 “If You Don’t Do It, I Won’t Do It”
7 “It Is Boring”
6 “I Am Not An Adult Star”
5 “It Is Painful”
4 “I Tried It Before (Surprise, I Didn’t Like It)”
3 “She Is Not Into It”
2 “It Is Degrading”
1 “It Is Disgusting”
Listen, there are some really freaky, creepy guys out there that are into some disgusting things, so do not be one of those guys with your significant other (unless you met her on one of those “adult” dating sites). It is not hot to a girl when you ask her to do something inside or outside of the bedroom that involves anything unhygienic or disrespectful, putting her in a degrading situation can be embarrassing and make her not even want to be around you. If she is adamant about being turned off physically or emotionally about something, then move on; if you absolutely cannot live without it, break up with her.
Sources: dailydot.com, yourtango.com
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