15 Ways Your Zodiac Sign Affects You In The Bedroom

While many may be quick to dismiss the zodiac as nothing more than superstition, there is often a lot of truth in what your zodiac sign says about you. You can infer information about any part of your life from your zodiac sign, and it’s often very useful for scoping out personality traits and preferences.

When it comes to the bedroom, you can watch as many videos and read as many women’s magazines as you like, but you might still be left with the same kind of skills. Why is that? Because your zodiac sign could be holding you back – or you might just be trying to go about things in a way that is contrary to your nature.

Get your star sign and your partner’s at the ready as we delve into what your zodiac sign says about your bedroom skills. You may be about to understand a serious revelation about why your skills are the way they are. Have you always left your partner wanting more? Are you never satisfied yourself? Or do you perhaps just want to improve things all round? Using the power of the zodiac, you might just be able to figure it out.

Under each sign of the zodiac is a different kind of lover. Some are more sensitive than others, and some are more adventurous. Some are more capable of pleasing their partners, while some are all about pleasing themselves. Curious to know which category you fall into? There’s only one way to find out what your zodiac means…

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15 Who You Match Best With

Getting together with the right person is the goal that most people spend their whole lives reaching for. When your soulmate also happens to cause fireworks in the bedroom, that’s just perfection. But what you may not realise is that you’ve been looking in the wrong place until now. You need to find someone who fits you the best. Here’s a quick rundown of who fits who:

Aries: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

Taurus: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

Gemini: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

Cancer: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Leo: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

Virgo: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Capricorn

Libra: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

Scorpio: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus, Aquarius, Capricorn

Sagittarius: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

Capricorn: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

Aquarius: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

Pisces: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

14 How Long You Last

Yes, your horoscope could actually affect whether you’re a long-distance marathon man or more of a sprinter. Aries love to get everything done as fast as possible, and normally thrive on situations where you’ve only got a few minutes before work and it has to happen now. Not only will an Aries be more likely to go for a quickie, but they’re also more likely to enjoy it. They wouldn’t enjoy a partnership with a Taurus. Taurus is all about taking their time and being slow and steady. Starting with a massage or some gentle play, their bedroom encounters can literally last for hours – which can lead to some toe-curling fireworks when the culmination of all that effort comes together. Most other zodiac signs are happy to fit somewhere in-between, but two lovers from these signs are very unlikely to be able to find that happy medium. You’re better off with someone who appreciates your style.

13 How Much You Experiment

While some zodiac signs are happy with things forming into a pattern, there are others who will feel like they are stuck in a rut. A Sagittarius is more likely to become dissatisfied after settling down with just one partner, unless of course they find ways to keep it fresh. A Sagittarius loves to throw caution to the wind and dive into something new, so they may also be more likely to cheat. Rein that impulse in by channelling it in the bedroom to the person you want to be with. Grab a copy of the Karma Sutra and try a new position every time – why not? If you’re not with The One just yet, then it’s likely that you are a fan of sowing your wild oats, and even seeking out partners with different characteristics on purpose. Just remember that it’s not Pokemon – you don’t actually have to catch ‘em all.

12 How Noisy You Are

For a Gemini, being verbal adds a whole new dimension to the experience. A Gemini thinks nothing of talking dirty, and loves to hear the same kind of things in return. They will whisper in your ear in public about what they want to do when they get you home. They will also shout the house down when things are feeling great and they want the world to know. The same can be true for a Libra, although they might be a little more private about it. Leos might not be talkative themselves, but love to be told all about how impressive they are and how well they are satisfying their partner. A Capricorn is more likely to be quiet about it, as are Aquarians. But science has proven that when you make more noise in the bedroom, both of you have a better time. No matter what your sign is, you might want to consider at least adding in a few moans and groans, even if it feels a bit outlandish at first. This will bring your skills up to a whole new level.

11 How 50 Shades Of Grey You’re Willing To Go

Not everyone likes the idea of going a bit Christian Grey in the bedroom. If you’re finding that you’re with someone who does, but you don’t want to, then your zodiac signs could be to blame. An Aries is the most likely to enjoy being dominant in the bedroom. They want to be in control, and to have what they consider to be a sexual conquest. They want to be the pursuer and love the hunt. If this is you, your skills could be limited by this approach. You’re all about the chase, but may end up disappointing once you actually get into the bedroom. Work on spending more time on pleasing your lover rather than thinking of them as a conquest, and you might find yourself getting more repeat visits. After all, what could be more exciting than discovering your ability to tame a wild animal with your body?

10 How Kinky You Are

There’s a difference between being imaginative and actually putting that imagination to good use. While an Aquarius will be dreaming up new scenarios all day long, they might be satisfied with keeping them in the realm of the imagination only. For a Scorpio, it’s a whole different story. If you have been accused of keeping things too vanilla in the bedroom, you might want to take a page out of a Scorpio’s book. They don’t see anything as off-limits, so they are just as likely to get out the bondage gear or the whipped cream as they are to drive to a lover’s lane. Scorpio can get very kinky indeed, which can be a huge turn-off for more vanilla signs like Taurus or Virgo. Aquarius could be a potential match, however, helping to bring big dreams into reality – with a heavy focus on experimentation rather than sticking to the same kinks all of the time.

9 Who Gets The Most Satisfaction

Now, be honest. Who gets the most satisfaction in the bedroom when all is said and done? If you’re a Leo, it’s probably yourself, and that can be a problem for your partner. A Libra, however, is more likely to ensure an even footing. They are all about balance, and want their partner to feel just as good as they do. Pisces, on the other hand, are all about pleasing their partner. You might think that a Leo and a Pisces would make a good match, but in reality, this would be a partnership made in hell. With only one person having all of the fun, all of the time, it’s the kind of role that quickly becomes tedious and one-sided. Take a leaf from Libra’s book and consider thinking about your partner more to ensure that you both get what you need every time you slip under the sheets together.

8 How Romantic It Gets

Now, we all know that some people love a bit of romance, while others are more in favour of a quick fumble and a heavy sleep. But did you realize that this is actually controlled by your horoscope? Cancer and Gemini are two signs which tend to be on opposite ends of this spectrum. For a Gemini, it’s all about keeping things fun and light. Flirting is a lot of fun for a Gemini, but that’s as far as it goes – and they prefer things to be no-strings-attached in a lot of cases. As for a Cancer, this is more about candles and rose petals. A Cancer prefers long kisses in the rain, affectionate touching and cuddling, and declarations of love. Get two Cancers together and you’re in for a long romance which could make you the cutest couple in the retirement home. Come on too romantic with another sign, however, and you might find your partner is more likely to run a mile.

7 How Frisky You Are

Some people are ready to head into the bedroom (or just do it where they stand) almost every minute of the day. Others prefer a set time and place. Gemini is a great example here again of a sign that just wants everything to be fun and up for grabs at any moment. If you’re a Gemini, you probably think about getting frisky in the kitchen, the cinema, the bathroom, and anywhere else you happen to be with someone you fancy. As for a Virgo, things couldn’t be more different. Virgos are all about getting things done in an organized and scheduled way. This means that they often want to have that set time and place recognized in advance – they are likely to get down to it just before sleep in the bedroom every time. Incidentally, if you want to break loose, try moving your bedroom activities to an area like a desk or counter. It’s a place where you normally get things done, and once the clothes come off, you could find a new, friskier side to yourself because of that association.

6 Who Gets The Most Attention

When you enter the bedroom, who is getting the most attention? Are you all about making your partner feel good, or are you never happy unless all of the focus is on you? If you chose the second option, then you’re probably a Leo. While a Leo is fine with lending a helping hand to their partner, they prefer that the spotlight is on them. This is great for satisfying their needs, but doesn’t necessarily leave their partners feeling fulfilled. A great way to get around this is to pretend that you’re the lead star in a movie – and you can even set up some video cameras if you want to make the fantasy real. As the star, you will also want to show off your skills, so prove to the audience how great you are at making your partner happy. This will give everyone what they want, evening things out a little for those who tend to feel like the centre of the universe.

5 How Imaginative You Get

While we know that a Sagittarius is happy to experiment, it’s an Aquarius who would actually be able to come up with the most ideas. Imagination rules for Aquarius, so if you are always coming up with new ways to surprise your lover in the bedroom, this is why. It could also be a sign that you will love a bit of roleplay. If that’s not up for discussion – perhaps you’re dating a down-to-earth and straight-laced Virgo – then the next best thing is to immerse yourself in your mind. Make sure that you choose a position where you can close your eyes and let imagination take over. Just make sure that you don’t accidentally scream out someone else’s name – there’s such a thing as going too deep into your fantasy world. A Virgo might actually be offended at the idea that you need to retreat into your imagination, so best to keep this one to yourself if you’re not confident about the reaction.

4 Whether You Seek it Out

So, we know that Aries will be seeking out new partners and trying to prove themselves via conquest. Other zodiac signs, however, might be more reluctant. A Taurus can be a bit lazy in the bedroom, and happier to lie back and let themselves be hunted. In other words, they’ll wait for it to happen rather than forcing the issue. But if your skills aren’t too well developed, this method is never going to help you get any better. You need practice to get perfect! If you’re a Taurus without too many notches on your bedpost, now might be the time to go out on the pull and really try to outdo yourself. If all else fails, look for an Aries to hook up with and let them do all of the work – at least you will both be getting something out of it. Otherwise, you could be in danger of being branded ‘boring’.

3 How Crude You Like To Be

Some of us just love making crude jokes with our friends, and that kind of language is never far off in the bedroom either. Others prefer to imagine that making hay is a most dignified affair, deserving of only the most poetic and lyrical words. If you’re a Libra, you won’t enjoy talking dirty at all – unless the language comes right up out of the gutter. Crudeness just is not a good idea around Librans. If you’ve tried dirty talk and hated it, this is why. You can still bring your skills up to scratch by using softer words and making it all about the romance. Who could teach you a few words that would make you blush? Aries isn’t afraid of getting out the dirty talk and using the kind of words that your mother would wash right out of your mouth. That doesn’t mean that you will enjoy it, so exercise caution here.

2 How Sensual You Are

There’s a big divide down the zodiac signs as to which are more sensual and which are not. Being sensual makes a big difference in the bedroom. Do you enjoy music, lots of touching and body contact, and even bringing food into the bedroom? Or are you more about getting the job done, rather than lingering over your senses? You are more likely to be in touch with your sensual side if you are a Taurus, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn, or Pisces. Other star signs might need a helping hand to understand this side of things. This could lead to a conflict in the bedroom, with one person wanting sensual satisfaction and the other being all about the physical. You’re better off finding a different match if that is the situation that you find yourself in. If you’ve never indulged your sensual side, now is the time to give it a go – you could find hidden depths of pleasure that you didn’t know about.

1 How Much Effort You Put In

Is a bedroom session a chance for you to enjoy a relaxed and passionate embrace, or is it more akin to a trip to the gym? Your answer will reveal whether you are a Capricorn. For a Capricorn, there’s nothing more exciting than a romp in the sheets that leaves them feeling sweaty, out of breath, and achy all over. It sounds like a paradox for some, but for others, it’s the definition of ultimate bliss. If you enjoy going to the gym a lot, this is probably why. If you feel yourself stagnating in the bedroom, you need to up the ante and the tempo. Why not use the same tricks that you do when going for a run? Put on some fast-paced music and get both of your hearts racing in time with a workout that does more than tone your muscles. If you’re paired with a less energetic zodiac sign, just make sure that you’re doing all the work.

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