The 15 Sexiest Valentine's Day Gifts She Actually Wants

Wasn’t it just Christmas? Didn’t we just exchange gifts? It sure seems like we did, and now it’s Valentine’s Day already. What will you get your girlfriend now? Her new diet she picked as a New Year’s resolution will keep her from eating chocolates, so that rules that out. She’s got enough teddy bears and stuffed animals around her apartment and you really don’t want to give her any more. You could buy her jewelry, but that’s a big investment and she doesn’t even wear jewelry that much. What will you get her this time?

It’s a well known fact that Valentine’s Day is simply a "Hallmark Holiday." It was made to sell presents. Everyone expects some kind of gift on Valentine’s Day and if you forget to get her something, she certainly won’t forget your apathy.  But why follow the standard conventions of Valentine’s gift giving? It’s a day meant to celebrate love and the people in your life that mean something special to you. That’s right, it’s not just about her, it’s about you, too. It’s about the two of you being together; not flashy gifts.

It’s about time we spiced up Valentine’s Day. Let’s forgo the teddy bear in favor of a teddy. Forget the box of chocolates and try another tasty treat. It’s time to celebrate your relationship and get something you’ll both enjoy. It's Valentine’s Day after all, so get her something you’ve both wanted.

Here they are - the 15 Sexiest Valentine’s Day Gifts.

15 Let Her Pick The Lingerie She Wants

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Men have such good intentions when they buy their women sexy lingerie, have it wrapped up nice and pretty, and give it to her on a special occasion.  You're trying to send the message that she looks sexy and you think of her.  The message you're actually sending is that she doesn't look sexy enough in her own underwear or lingerie, and you'd like her to wear what you picked out instead.  Not all that romantic, is it?

14 Netflix and Chill… The Old Fashioned Way

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Everyone is so busy these days, it’s hard to find time to just relax with your partner. If you’ve been struggling to find downtime together, plan a long day indoors. Order her favorite pizza, bust out some blankets, and sit on the couch in your underwear watching your favorite series. Better yet, find something the two of you have wanted to watch for a long time but have been putting off.

13 See What She Wants to See


This year Valentine’s Day falls on a Sunday - and on a weekend with a lot of important movie releases. Some major TV series are coming back on, including The Walking Dead and Castle, and some very exciting movies are coming out that weekend, including Deadpool, Zoolander 2, and How to be Single. Even out of just these options there’s something here for everyone.

12 Get Her Themed Lingerie

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If you really want to surprise her with a piece of lingerie, don't be boring about it.  She can go to Victoria's Secret any day to get a a new silky nightie.  She probably still has lingerie from past boyfriends.  Those guys wasted money on lingerie that she's still wearing when she's with you.  Get her something really remarkable so that, when she wears it, she'll always be thinking of you.

11 Clean Her Apartment

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10 Get Her Favorite Booze

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It's true: if you get anyone liquored up, they're more likely to be, ahem, "physical."  But do you want to have drunk sex or do you want to have good sex and then get drunk?  The latter is usually the more enjoyable experience.

9 Get Her A "Toy"

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You're probably thinking, "Why would I do that?  I want her to want to have sex with me, not give her the tools to take care of herself."  Hold it right there.  A man secure in his relationship shouldn't feel threatened by a small toy and, honestly, if you give her the tools to get herself started, she'll want the real deal even more.

8 Things You Can Laugh About In The Bedroom

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Don't freak out!  A lot of people associate laughter during sex with something bad.  Don't worry, no one is laughing at your equipment or how you look.  Sex in a healthy relationship is about more than the physical act; there comes a time in a relationship where honesty emerges.  You both need to admit to wandering thoughts during sex, like when something she said reminded you of an Austin Powers movie.

7 Get Her A Project, And Work On It Together

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This one might make a bit more sense from a testimonial:

"I told my boyfriend that I loved doing DIY projects, but we were both in college and you can't do a lot of that in your dorm.  For Valentine's Day, he drove me to an antique store and told me to pick out whatever I wanted, under the condition that it be something that needed cleaning up or modernizing and that we could do it together.  I thought it was the most romantic gesture he could ever make."

6 Buy Yourself A Cologne That Complements Her Perfume

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It wouldn't hurt to go ahead and buy another bottle of her perfume when you're buying a cologne that complements it. This is such a specific detail of her appearance that, if you take careful notice of it, she'll be so touched and complimented that she'll be likely to give special treatment.  Plus, you'll smell great.

5 Luxury Bath Set... and Offer Your Helping Hands

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Almost everyone enjoys a relaxing bath every once in a while.  If your girlfriend's been feeling stressed or busy, fix her up a soothing bath set.  Some tools to include might be bath salts, bubble bath mix, candles, a loofah, moisturizing lotion, and natural soaps.  Go the extra distance and sprinkle a few rose petals around the tub and pour her some wine.

4 Watch Adult Entertainment Together

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Hold it right there. Mr. Don't pull out your laptop and open up your red files full of whatever kinky sex you're into.  That level of honesty, especially if you two have never watched adult films together before, is probably overwhelming and may cause more of a rift in your relationship than bring you together.

3 Take A Sexy Secret Out In Public

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Secrets bring those who keep them closer together.  Have a sexy secret and take her some place nice.  If you've never done anything risque like this before, maybe just ask her to go commando and you can keep her panties in your suit pocket.  If you're a bit more experienced in scandals, there are vibrating toys that can be remotely controlled through your iPhone.  Imagine pretending to text at the dinner table and seeing what happens when you hit send.  Try to wait until you get back home to drop the charade and pounce on each other.

2 Visit A Nostalgic Date Spot


Not all gifts are tangible items.  Some of the greatest gifts you can give can't be held in anything but your memories.

1 Indulge Her Fantasies

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This time, it's not about you.  Give her the lead.  Ask her what she wants and refuse to give her anything until she explicitly says what she wants.  Fulfill her desires and give her complete control.  Women who are usually more dominant in the bedroom frequently wish the guy would try a different style or experiment more with positions, while more submissive women would thrive under the responsibility of leading during sex.  Demand to know what she wants, then let her have it.

To take it a little further, bring a few toys and tools into the bedroom.  Vibrators, handcuffs/silk ties, blindfolds, whatever you'd like to provide her with.  Ask her to take her pick of what she wants to try.  See what she's into and how she'll use the tools at her disposal.  She may surprise you with what she's capable of.


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