Cell phones are pretty nifty, right? You can do so much with them – text, take pictures, work from your phone, play app games. Speaking of apps, you can find one for pretty much anything, from hooking up to scheduling every minute of your life. This is preaching to the choir, though – who, in this day and age, doesn’t use and love their smartphone?
Of course, smartphones do have their downside as well, particularly in the realm of relationships. Something about your significant other having all this universal access can make you a bit paranoid, right? Like when she’s texting next to you in bed, who is she talking to? Is it an ex? Or just her girlfriends or family?
Most of the time this paranoia is misplaced. It’s not usually a problem where she’s cheating or being shady. Other times, your worst fears are reality. When you see any of these 15 things on your girl’s phone, it’s time to talk – or maybe even break up.
15 Mislabeled Contacts
Maybe your contacts aren’t all labeled with exactly their name. Whether you put your mother as “Helen” or “Ma” though, you still know exactly who that is in your phone and there’s nothing sneaky about it. When you click on your text message thread with your mother, you’ll see texts about how to turn her auto correct on and why her smartphone locks itself when she leaves it alone for too long. Nothing suspect there, right?
14 Naked Pics…that You Haven’t Seen
There’s nothing wrong with having nudes on your phone – it might not be smart since hackers all over the world can easily get them, but you aren’t a celebrity. Who’s going to try and hack your cloud to get to your raunchy pictures?
13 Inconsistent Info
Your girlfriend tells you that she’s going out all day Saturday to visit her grandparents in a far off city. Nothing wrong with that, right? It’s good to have a girl who’s family oriented if you’re looking for a long-term serious relationship.
12 Illegal Information
Now, if you’re into illegal things, the advice is simple – it’s not a wise idea, but you do you. If you aren’t, however, living a life of crime and midnight business dealings, then there should probably be an agreement about this with you and your significant other. At the very least, if she’s living on the other side of the law you should know about it.
11 Texts from Old BFs
If you’re still texting an ex of yours, you better have a damn good reason. Yeah, it’s hard to let go of some exes, especially if you were friends first, but it’s just not a good idea to keep that kind of relationship going. It’s risky – and what would you think about your girlfriend texting one of her exes?
10 Flirty Texts with Other Women
The above issue isn’t limited to men, either. Some women are into both teams, and hey, if your girl is? Totally cool. But don’t get too comfortable. Her female exes might be female just like her other friends, but don’t forget the “ex” part of that relationship title.
9 Recent Dating Site History
Monogamy means two people in a committed relationship. You and them. No one else, no questioning, just one and one equals two. Maybe the relationship won’t last, but while it is lasting? It’s just the two of you, end of story.
8 Negative Texts about You
It’s okay to have bad feelings about your significant other from time to time. Whether your girlfriend is a nag or she said something that seriously pissed you off, venting to friends is how you start to get over fights and get support or perspective. In short, speaking negatively about a mate isn’t necessarily a bad thing when it’s about getting out frustration and nothing malicious.
7 Locked Files She Can’t Explain
Everyone deserves privacy, but everyone in a relationship also deserves some transparency from their partner. Say you pick up her phone because it’s close and you want to order a pizza. You unlock the screen and there’s a file you’ve never seen before. You tap it and you’re asked to unlock the file via a password.
6 Inappropriate Facebook Convos
Inappropriate messages don’t just get sent via text. Your suspicious significant other has many other means of sending sexy convos to someone else – and Facebook is the number one place for finding someone to have fun with on the side.
5 Private Information About You Made Public
A lot of couples have a pretty simple rule about sex: what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. If you like to share these intimate details or participate in voyeurism, that’s certainly alright – but for most, their private times and parts are exactly that. Private.
4 Plans to Dump You Eventually
Not every relationship works, and that’s okay. The problem is when you know a relationship isn’t working and you don’t put an end to it. If you find information in her phone about how you aren’t working out and she wants to dump you, it’s probably impossible to work things out.
3 Opinions or Views You Don't Agree With
As much as everyone says it’s possible to agree to disagree, sometimes that’s oversimplifying the problem. For instance, important issues such as minority rights and liberties can’t just be slapped with a simple phrase like that where someone can just shrug their shoulders at someone else’s opinion and call it a night.
2 Stalker Data
It’s pretty much always nice to have a girl interested in you, but sometimes things can get a little out of hand. If you’ve ever had a stalker, you probably know what this feels like – while it’s great that a woman is into you, it’s not great that she’s following and harassing you at every turn, especially if you’ve already spurned her advances.
1 Nude Pics of Guys (that aren’t You)
Your girlfriend might receive nudes from guys, and that’s okay. She can’t control what other men send her, especially on social media. Women get unsolicited pictures of male genitals all the time and it’s not cool – they didn’t ask for that, so you probably shouldn’t be giving it to them unsolicited, if that’s your thing.
What is their fault is when they receive these pictures and then don’t delete them. Even if they’re sent from an ex, once they’re over those pics should go straight into her virtual dumpster. This isn’t the same thing as adult entertainment either, if that’s her excuse. P*** is impersonal, whereas she probably could connect with the guy sending her nudes. If she wants to keep them so badly, maybe she should date that guy instead – she certainly isn’t going to be dating you anymore.
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