Being intimate with another person is something that is on everyone's mind. For many, it's a thought that is constant throughout the day. Though to be fair, there are so many different kinds of intimate experiences to be had! Speaking from a woman's perspective, doing the deed is a lot of the time something that I place a lot of value on. Although we are in 2016 and women and men are viewed as equals, there is no denying that in matters of the heart, men and women (in general) have their differences.
Generally speaking, women have intercourse for emotional reasons, while men have do it for physical reasons. Though make sure to tread lightly because making love is without a doubt something that tends to complicate situations. As women, we need to protect our hearts, and sometimes we make the wrong decisions when it comes to who we sleep with. The following list contains fifteen reasons why you shouldn't sleep with someone. From personality traits, to who their friends are, everything is covered! I hope you men are ready for a reality check on what women don't want in a partner.
Want to know if it's a good idea to sleep with him? Want to know why she isn't sleeping with you? Continue reading and your questions will most likely be answered!
15 He's a Jerk
Listen up, ladies, if he is a jerk before you sleep with him, he's going to be an even bigger jerk after you do. Sadly, as women, a lot of the time it just so happens that we are attracted to the assholes. However, if I have learned one thing in my dating experience, it's that you can't change anyone no matter how hard you try. So, if you are thinking of sleeping with that jerk to finally get him to realize he's in love with you, please try and spare yourself the hard feelings.
14 He's Using You
13 He Is In A Relationship
Why oh why would you want to get involved with a man who is already involved with another woman? I mean, the reality is that sleeping with a man who is involved can truly only lead to one thing, and that is drama. A lot of the time, humans (both men and women) want what they can't have. This is why a woman will pursue a married or taken man. Secretly, women who sleep with unavailable men are hoping that these men will pick them over their significant other, which is not always the case. Chances are, sleeping with a married or taken man will just end up leaving you in heartache.
12 You're In A Relationship
11 It's Someone You Know's Ex
10 You See Them Often
There is nothing worse than having a “one night stand” with someone you see regularly. Whether it's your boss, your best friend's roommate or the guy who sells you your cigarettes every morning, sleeping with someone in your daily routine can really mess everything up. There is a certain line that is crossed when you sleep with someone who you can't escape from. The only time it is not a horrible idea is if both parties involved are willing to keep their intimacy separate from their day to day meetings with one another. But even that is much easier said than done, so you really are just better off trying to find someone "new" to engage with.
9 He Is Your Friend
8 You Love Him, He Doesn't Love You
7 It's Not The Right Time
6 You Know You Will Get Hurt
5 He Is Your Ex
4 He's An Authority Figure
3 He Is Friends With a Family Member
2 You Are Doing It Out Of Spite
1 He Refuses To Use Protection
Okay, seriously ladies, all the other ones don't matter half as much as this one does. If a man refuses to wear protection, there is zero reason to sleep with him. I can't emphasize how important being safe during intercourse is. This is something that can truly alter your life forever, and if a man does not respect that then there is not a chance you can ever sleep with him. There is not only the getting pregnant aspect but there is the idea of STDs. Sexually transmitted diseases are a real thing and they happen to more people than you realize. There are so many kinds of STDs, the best way of preventing yourself from being exposed to them is by using protection. A lot of women think birth control is enough, but that only prevents pregnancies, birth control has nothing to do with STDs. No man is ever worth getting a disease over, especially if they are simply refusing to wear protection. That is a telling sign that you are about to sleep with a selfish little boy.
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