If you had to rate yourself based on how kinky you are, on a scale of one to ten, what number would you pick? Are you a totally vanilla, “no sex unless the lights are off” kind of person? Or a BDSM dungeon-dwelling freak who eats sex toys for breakfast? Most people would honestly rank themselves lower on the list. The craziest they’ll be is lingerie and role-playing. Maybe a three-way if the opportunity presents itself. As such, you may also find that your sex life is stagnating. These two facts go pretty hand-in-hand. When you repeat the same old sexual activities over and over, even if it’s with different partners, you’ll find that the routine gets pretty old. After all, variety is the spice of life, is it not?
In order to boost your kink rating in the bedroom, it’s time to try out some new things – some things you probably would never try unless you were dared to. Well, here’s the dare: try at least one of these 12 weird ways to get intimate, or all of them – if you’re nasty. Here are twelve things that may sound weird but will be awesome.
12 Mutual Exploration
Sometimes the best way to start having more fun in the bedroom is to start off by not actually going at it at all. Great sex is all about exploring and understanding both you and your partner’s body, and how they fit together in the best way. Not every woman is one size fits all, and men aren’t all the same either. This means that you’ll have to truly learn to explore and get used to someone before the sex can be as electrifying as you want it to be.
11 Risky Places
There’s actually a bit of science behind why risky sex is more pleasurable for most people. When you feel anxiety or like you’re afraid of something, your body releases endorphins. Endorphins can be very closely linked to pleasure, and thrills and pleasure go hand in hand.
10 Light Bondage
You don’t have to be hanging from the ceiling by your ankles to participate in bondage, BDSM, or dominant/submissive-play. You also don’t need a lot of fancy, expensive equipment either. Next time you want to explore, simply grab something that can be used as a restraint (a tie, a pillowcase rolled up, a cord of some kind) and a spatula or other flat instrument. Voila, you have a restraint and a flogger.
9 Pretend Strangers
Girlfriend? What girlfriend? You’re a single man – or at least you are in your next role-play scenario. While the point of most fantasies is to be different people, there’s usually a fantasy element involved. You’re a doctor; she’s a nurse, etc. Instead of making things wildly unrealistic (unless you do happen to be a doctor and a nurse in a relationship), try for something a little more manageable.
8 Age Difference
As a disclaimer, this does not mean you’re allowed to try and score with people that aren’t legal – that’s never cool. What this advice does mean is you should probably try to experiment with someone who’s in a different age bracket from you. If you’re a 20-something, try going for a cougar or an older guy. If you are a cougar or an older gentleman, try experimenting with someone outside of a 10 year age radius.
7 Reverse Voyeurism
Voyeurism is usually applied to someone when they like being seen having sex. Reverse voyeurism is when you enjoy watching someone have sex. Get the difference?
6 In Water
“Sex on the beach” is both a common romanticism and incense fragrance that definitely isn’t what it’s cracked up to be. You can get a sunburn, there’s sand everywhere and it scraps where the sun doesn’t shine, and not to mention all that saltwater. If you want an actually enjoyable experience akin to having sex on the beach, why not try it in the bath?
5 Different Places
This also kind of goes hand in hand with the “risky places” tip, but this can be a lot more general. The bedroom may be the usual choice but what about other places? The kitchen table, the couch, the washing machine?
Sex isn’t just about touching and feeling. It also doesn’t have to be about just having a physical connection, either. Your auditory sense is often the most underutilized sense you play with when you’re having intimate moments, outside of enjoying a nice moan or two.
This may not be so easy for guys, but ice can be the cheapest and easiest sex toy you can ever make in your own home. Forget the vibes and plugs for a second and simply go get an ice cube tray to have fun with. The cooling sensation of ice can both arouse a sense of pain, but also pleasure. At first, the sudden sensation of ice can be a little jarring, causing some goose bumps, but it’s also pretty easy to get addicted to this rush.
2 Bedroom Games
Getting a little cheesy sometimes can be exactly what you need in the bedroom. You can easily Google a hundred different weird sex games, but here’s a couple you can try out pretty easily. First, find a pair of dice and pick out 12 different acts. Roll the dice and see what numbers you get. Whatever the dice comes up with, that’s the act you must perform.
1 Home Videos
The "adult" industry isn’t just shot in a basement with “professional” actors and a pair of large stage lights. You can make movies in your own home as long as you have some kind of video camera. Maybe the idea of a sex tape is a little too publicized and trashy for you, especially considering how they’re essentially a new form of media promotion in the celebrity world, but they can actually be a lot of fun.
Just don’t focus on putting a lot of effort into it. It can be really exhilarating to watch yourself have a fun time with your partner, especially if they happen to not be there at the moment. Just remember that if you ever break up, do the honorable thing and delete it.
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