If you’re a guy, you’re probably aware of the ideal mate type that’s associated with women – gorgeous, trim and toned, maybe a little curvaceous and sultry. She’s got semi-long hair, maybe dirty blonde with blue eyes, a slight tan to her skin. She’s also in her early-to-mid 20s, no matter what age group you are. You’ve seen this kind of woman everywhere with slight variations. She’s supposed to be every man’s fantasy girl – the type of woman that they’d date, sleep with and marry all on the same day if they could.
But that’s fantasy, and fantasy isn’t always so perfect when you’re faced with the reality of the situation. The truth is, 20-something women (and even women in their early 30s) aren’t always the best dating material, no matter how hot they are. It takes more than just good legs and a double-letter cup size to actually make a relationship work. There needs to be an emotional connection, the ability to have conversations, shared interests. In short, a relationship needs to be substantial if you want it to go the distance, and a lot of younger women just can’t offer that.
What if you could have the best of both worlds? A woman who is gorgeous and sophisticated, but also knowledgeable and with experience? Being with an older woman is something of a fantasy too, a la The Graduate, but that’s an affair or a one night stand. Actually dating someone older than you are may be something you should try out if you want a different kind of relationship – one that might actually last for a long time.
12 You Can Talk to Her
You can chat with girls but you can really talk with a woman. You might find it cute and engaging to speak with a younger woman about your mutual interests and this and that, but older women are more likely to be true and intelligent conversationalists. She’s been through more, has had more time to learn various things and can match wits with you in almost any conversation.
11 They Know How To Work With What They’ve Got
You see a beautiful girl and she has a beautiful dress on. The next day she’s wearing a gorgeous sundress that shows of her legs. The day after that, a body-hugging t-shirt and short shorts. Every day she looks stunning – but it’s not because of what she’s wearing. She’s naturally beautiful and she doesn’t have to put a lot of effort into it.
10 They’re Likely Career Oriented
Older women aren’t always career-focused, but many happen to be. Some older woman are more akin to a housewife, but many middle-aged females in this day and age are taking advantage of their power as women – power they likely fought for, perhaps in the 70's and 80's.
9 It’s a Learning Experience
Part of the excitement in relationships is learning how you work together, and that is definitely present in relationships with older women. If you’ve never been with an older woman before, figuring out your dynamic with each other is something that takes some time and practice.
8 She’s Comfortable In Her Own Skin
Younger women are often insecure. You see this in their appearance, their attitudes – it practically wafts off of some of them like a scent. There are confident younger women, yes, but many are going through a sort of identity crisis. It’s not something to blame them for – did you have yourself all figured out at 23? If you’re currently in that age group, do you?
7 They Want to Be a True Couple With You
Maybe it’s because of an enhanced familial instinct, but older women are more likely to put effort into making the two of you a team instead of something insignificant. When you become a couple, you really become a true duo together. This might not be what you’re looking for if you just want to have some fun with a cougar sometime, but having this kind of relationship experience is definitely worth it.
6 They Appreciate You
Many older women don’t actively try to date younger men. Why? Society has sort of trained them into thinking they can’t get a younger guy. Sure, you have the occasional Mrs. Robinson type, but most older women have been told that younger men aren’t into them – guys want someone with a young mind and body, and that simply isn’t them anymore.
5 They’re More Zen
Younger women are highly emotional creatures. They haven’t matured to a point where they have a very good handle on their emotions, so this can be really overwhelming to you who is more subdued. This emotional turmoil gets better with age, but why wait for a younger girlfriend to get more mature when you could simply date an older woman?
4 They Know What Passion Is
Older women have experienced life and they’re less likely to take anything for granted – you included. This makes them passionate and appreciative of life and the blessings that it gives them. When you date an older woman, she doesn’t see you as a blip on her radar. She sees you as a door to open and explore the possibilities within.
3 They Have a Sense of Independence
Have you ever had a girlfriend that was clingy? She wanted to go everywhere with you, know what you were doing all the time and sent you texts and emails constantly in order to check on you? Some guys are into this kind of obsessive treatment, while others are likely to find it really smothering - perhaps it’s even a little creepy at times.
2 There’s No Guesswork
One of the best perks of dating an older woman is they’re done with those teenage and 20-something mind games. Younger women think men need to know everything they’re feeling and everything they want them to say just by being a mind-reader. They also expect perfection. Some women have to believe that men were given a script for perfect relationship moments at birth and it simply got lost in their messy room sometime before puberty – there’s no other explanation for this kind of misconception.
1 Your Time In The Bedroom is Out of This World
Remember that statistic that floated around about men reaching their sexual peak at 18 and women reaching theirs at 40? It’s pretty much true. A lot of this can be attributed to experience as well, leaving biology out of it – women are a lot more sexually complex than men are. This means that women take more time getting used to their bodies, sex and their understanding of what makes them feel good.
An experienced older woman has this all figured out, and she also knows enough about what men want to be a master at making you both have a great time in bed. Middle aged women are also old enough to know what to do and how to do it, but also young enough to be physically fit and capable of having sex any way you’d like to. Take advantage of this – your mate is in her prime and you shouldn’t waste it.
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