What men want versus what women want can be very different, and when you throw sex into the conversation there is often a total breakdown of communication. Here is a look from the men's side and what they wish women did more often during sex.
Open dialogue is the key. What men and women may find is that they both want (or are okay with) the same thing. Make suggestions and offer change. No one likes a complainer so tact is important when making suggestions (notice, did not use the word "demands") and remember great sex promotes overall physical and emotional health between couples.
What didn’t make the list? Begging just missed out. Guys don’t want to have to always beg for sex. Having to always ask for sex makes men feel less desired and worse, they may just stop asking. Men appreciate when women initiate sex at least sometimes and when it’s the guy initiating they don't want to be rejected each time - it comes across as begging.
Ready? We’ve got noise makers, hand jobs and of course, some adult cinema. Ladies, no man is expecting you to adopt all of these items, but if you did just one, you will have a happy guy on your hands. Men are simple that way. Here’s your list of ten things men wish women did more often during sex.
10 Make Noise
9 Say Yes, Yes, Yes To Fantasies
8 More Porn Please
7 Talking Dirty
6 How About a Threesome?
5 Change is Good
4 The Dance of Seduction
3 The Quickie
2 Lending a Hand
1 Use Your Mouth
What do men really want from women during sex? Two words: oral sex. Let’s be clear, this isn’t about power, but pleasure. Going down on your man doesn’t have to be foreplay, taking a break during intercourse is welcome as well. The bonus with oral sex is the act can be performed in more places than traditional sex and is perfect for those long drives. No need to stress about technique, your man will appreciate the effort. Plus, remember that practice makes perfect! Other benefits include less of a mess and if you are with the right man there’s a good chance he will return the favor.
Sources: womensday.com, collegecandy.com
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