Consider the cliché in most movies and TV productions where a man meets a woman at a bar, he buys her a drink, they talk, they laugh, they discover they are both into each other, and then they get a room and sleep together. The above scene is so common that if it were to go any other way, it would be quite surprising.
However, in real-life, so many factors have to be just right before a man wakes up in the morning with his girlfriend, crush, or even 'new friend' sleeping next to him. Although it is common to find women turning down offers that will lead to them waking up next to a man they don't know in the morning, it is not always the case. It might surprise you to know that most men will also turn down an offer to sleep with a woman when they discover a few things about them.
Some of the things below are discoveries that men make about women as soon as they meet them, while others are things that they discover over time. The first-time discoveries are the easiest to get away from because there is little relationship involved. The discoveries that a man will make after a few weeks or months are complicated because by this time a relationship has had a chance to develop.
However, whether in a relationship or not, a man will not want to sleep with a woman if she has any or a combination of the following:
10 She Has Bad Breath
Intimacy does not come automatically, even for men. It is going to be so hard for a man to sleep with his woman if she smells as if something died in her mouth. You cannot expect to go a few days without interacting with a toothbrush and some toothpaste, and think that you can just turn your man on. Furthermore, how your mouth smells speaks tons about how matters of hygiene are important to you, and what type of a person you generally are. A polite man will just come up with an excuse and find a way of fleeing from you, but less polite men might just share their thoughts on how much your breath stinks. Although this applies to both the man and the woman, it is important to take the trouble to brush your teeth at least every day.
9 She's Too Clingy
Men love to walk around holding their women, as they show them off to their friends and even strangers in the streets. However, it is very important to understand that a man also needs to be with his friends, and this does not mean that he loves you any less. An extremely clingy woman is one who will keep calling her man trying to find out where he is and who he is with. She wants to spend every minute of every day with her man next to her, and she intentionally or unintentionally chokes everyone else out of her man's life. Your man will not want to sleep with a woman who is too clingy, because she might end up destroying all his other friendships.
8 She Has An Annoying Voice
7 She Drinks Too Much
6 She Has Poor Taste
5 She Seems Too Easy
4 She's a Drama Queen
3 She's Impossible to Please
When a man says something to, or does something for the woman that he loves and she gets all excited, the man feels like he has conquered the world. A woman's reaction to even the smallest things that a man does is very important, because her reaction is an indication that she realizes that her man has been thinking about her and he values her. However, those women who hardly recognize the effort that a man is making or those who express dissatisfaction in a man's efforts to please them make a man feel unappreciated and discouraged. A man feeling unappreciated and discouraged is not willing to sleep with you now or any time in the near future. Call it the male ego, the need for approval, or whatever; just know that that 'whatever' is very important to a man.
2 She Seems to Be a Gold Digger
1 She Constantly Talks About Her Ex
The 'Ex'-factor is both a mood killer and a relationship killer if either party keeps talking about it. A woman who only speaks about her ex, whether in good or bad light is killing her man's desire to sleep with her. Talking about your ex is a sign that you are not completely over him and that you might be with your current man just out of convenience. A man hates being with a woman who is in love with someone else, and he will always imagine that the woman is comparing him to her ex in every aspect. A man needs to know that you belong to him completely, and if that is established then everything else will work out perfectly.
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