When it comes to making sure you are in a healthy relationship, one of the things that you should always be hoping for is that you have strong sexual chemistry with your partner. They can be the best person in the world, but you don't want a best friend, you want a lover (who doubles as a best friend).
Nothing can destroy affection quicker than realizing that the man or woman of your dreams has the kisses of your nightmares. While there are always ways to try and build sexual chemistry, there are still some red flags that should instantly send you running for the hills, and speak to your overall lack of sexual chemistry.
For the most part, these aren’t only the signs of a bad lover but they’re the signs of someone who just does not mesh with what you like to get down with. It’s not shallow to end a relationship because you are not getting your physical needs satisfied. In contrary, it is selfish of both you and your partner to remain in a relationship that you know is no longer sexually satisfying.
If you have some concerns about your own sexual activities, perhaps some of the signs listed below are currently applying to your love life. If they are, then you need to hope you’re with a partner that will put in the work to realize that something's got to change in the bedroom.
Here are the 10 biggest warning signs that you just don't have perfect sexual chemistry with your partner.
10 Difference In Oral Preferences
One of the biggest things that can immediately put an end to any good time is having a partner who does not share the same level of enthusiasm for oral as you do. If you don’t love oral? That’s totally cool, but you need to hope you are with a partner that also feels the same way. It can suck to feel like any time you please your partner, they (or yourself) are doing an act that they know you really don’t enjoy doing. Similarly, if your partner is going down on you, and it is more pain then pleasure, you need to hope that you can gently nudge your partner in the right direction.
9 A Difference In Libido
8 They Don’t Listen
7 They’re Selfish And Get Defensive
6 It’s Boring
5 You’re Thinking About Other People
4 You Like Different Things In Bed
3 You Have Different Ideas For Spicing It Up
2 It Just Feels Awkward
1 You Don’t Get Turned On
If you are going to have a healthy sex life, one of the biggest things to have in your corner is a state of arousal. If you’re a gentleman, no amount of thinking in the world is going to be able to lift your manhood if you are not turned on by your partner or the moment. If you’re a woman, not being turned on can lead to some incredibly painful experiences that make sex much less exciting. Don't stress out too much if you are having issues keeping aroused in the bedroom, but it may be a point of contention if it continues to happen.
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