Everyone is familiar with the obvious erogenous zones. That’s not what this list is about. Here, we’ve compiled some of the lesser-known erogenous zones. Whether you’re looking to freshen things up, or confused on where to start, this list will help you surprise and delight your lady the next time things get hot and heavy.
When it comes to stimulation and different erogenous zones, sensations and preferences are going to vary. The best approach you can take is an exploratory one. Ask her what she likes. Ask her if she’s enjoying it. Read her body language. Listen to her breathing or her moans. There is nothing sexier than communication in the bedroom.
The whole point of uncovering these “secret” zones for you is so you can experiment and explore them with your partner. Always start gently with your pressure. Sometimes it’ll be a rub with your finger, sometimes a kiss or a lick, sometimes the gentlest finger graze or hot exhale of breath. As you experiment with her, don’t be afraid to ask for her preference. Check in with her. Even ask her to guide you, if you need it.
It’s time to open up the sexual exploration of her body. Are you ready?
10 The (Not Quite Penultimate) Perineum
The perineum has been blurring the line between the vagina and the anus since the dawn of woman. Well, not really blurring it, more like bridging it. We’re ranking this at number 10 because of its proximity to the vagina. It’s possible you’ve accidentally briefly stimulated this baby once or twice already during your forays into vulva-land. A beautiful, loving place, truly.
This is an extremely nerve-rich area on the human body (any human body: that’s right men, you have one too). Any time you have a higher concentration of nerves in an area, that zone will be more receptive to pleasure and pain.
9 Find A-Game Stimulation With Her A-Spot
Everyone’s heard of the elusive G-spot. Well, the A-spot is different. Like the G-spot, the A-spot is IN the vagina. And it’s Deep. It’s up by her cervix. To reach it, you actually have to go an inch or two past the G-spot.
For vaginal activity, don’t try anything until she’s wet. It won’t feel good for her otherwise, and we want you both to be having a blast. Wait until after your foreplay has her appropriately lubricated, then you can go gently searching for this one. It’s along the front wall of her vagina, so if she’s on her back, your palm and fingers should be pointing up.
8 Find Her U-spot Before You Bring Out Your U-Boat
Any guesses as to where this is? No, this spot is not in the vagina. It is part of the vulva though! It’s a spot around her urethra. As with most of these zones, be gentle with this one. The urethral opening is located between her clitoris and her vagina, and it doesn’t need a lot of pressure to feel good for her. It’s likely you’ve stimulated this at some point in your sexual adventures with your partner.
7 Bare Thighs and Knee Highs
Thighs, the underside and the inner portions, are an especially sexy place to give a lady some attention. She’ll likely enjoy it because one, it’s a nice and sensitive spot. And two, any time you’re getting close to genitals, you have a good opportunity to cause a pleasurable stir. Try working your way very gently from her knees up to the inside of her hip bones. Brush your fingers or your lips lightly across the inside of her thighs and see if she bucks her hips in anticipation.
6 Starts in Her Toes
Down the body we go, all the way to the very bottom. Her feet. You’ve heard of toe-curling orgasms before, right? Maybe you’ve even induced one in your partner. The reason we bring them up is because the toes are connected, neurologically, to her privates. And if stimulating her vagina can make her toes curl… what effect would stimulating her toes have on her vagina?
5 Baby Got Lower Back
Massaging her lower back can be a great way to sooth your lady after a long day. It can also get her aroused and excited. Bad posture from texting and sitting at a computer all day can put extra strain on the lower back. Spending some time rubbing and massaging her lower back is a great way to release that tension. Tight hips and a tight lower back are pretty common ailments. Releasing some of that pressure could actually make sex feel even better.
4 DIY Lower Abs
The lower abs can be a very sensual spot. Maybe you’ve heard of the “coregasm,” an orgasm that is solely exercise-induced. There’s not much you can do to get her to have one of those, except maybe become her personal trainer. So yeah, you won’t be trying for that. But the proximity to her genitals does make her lower abs a worthwhile spot for you to explore. Give her kisses, trace small patterns lightly across her stomach. See if she’ll let you lick from her bellybutton down to her pubic hair line, or lower.
3 All Hands on Deck
We use our hands all day long. We’re holding phones, opening doors, and typing on computers. When do we ever give them any real attention? Never.
Treat a girl to a nice hand massage. This is an intimate bonding opportunity. It will relax her, show her you care about her, and make her feel good. Plus you can look into her eyes longingly and stuff while you do it. Here’s how:
2 Above the Areola
When you think breasts, you probably think nipples. But there’s a wealth of unexplored sensitivity around the nipple. Not only in the areola, but also where the skin of her breasts meets the darker skin of her areola. Give her some attention along the top third of her areola curve. Use gentle touches with your fingers, tongue or lips and slowly work your way towards the nipple.
1 Rise to the Top: Hair and Scalp
This is our number one secret erogenous zone. The pinnacle of secret erogenous zones, if you will.It’s ranked number one for a few reasons.
First, it’s accessible. There are few settings where a head scratch for your loved one will turn heads. It’s a perfect public arousal method. It’s not jarring PDA or nauseating lovey-dovey talk. It’s just a tender, old-fashioned, “god that feels good” head massage.
Second, a head massage releases all kinds of tension. It’s a great way to help your partner relax (unless she spent time on her hair and doesn’t want you to mess it up...yet).
Third, it’s more than just scalp. It’s actually her hair too! Tugging her hair gently can be a real turn on for a woman. As you kiss her (or without kissing her, up to the two of you) you can gather a portion of her hair in your hand and give it a gentle tug. Pulling near her scalp works best. Let go and keep moving and lightly tugging different parts of her hair. In short order you’ll have given her an incredibly arousing cranial experience. Atta’ boy!
Sources: cosmopolitan.co.uk, menshealth.com, wikipedia.org, goodinbed.com, beastinbed.com, webmd.com
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