We're happy you could join us today! But not as happy as you're going to be, because we have some tips that could potentially help you out. Maybe you’re in a nice relationship, but you have no idea how you got there or what is making it nice. Everyday is like walking on eggshells for you, you wonder if one mis-step could be the last one you take (in the relationship, anyway). Maybe you haven’t ever gotten that far, never making it past the second date. Or maybe you’re not even getting a first date!
Regardless of your situation, this list will outline the most common mistakes guys make, particularly when it comes to members of the opposite sex. Females are the notoriously tricky half of the human population. Many a man has lost his confidence (and his mind) trying to navigate the waters of female behavior. Like the sirens from mythology, these men are lured by beautiful songs and sights of gorgeous women, only to end up dashed against the rocks.
Instead of sinking like those poor sailing sods, try getting a clue! A good place to start is this list. How convenient! Feast your eyes on the glory that is: 10 mistakes guys make...all the time.
10 Why You Askin’ So Many Questions?
Ok inspector, first things first. Why are you asking her so many questions? What are you trying to get to the bottom of, huh? A very common problem guys have when they approach women for the first time is the chronic question-asking. “Where are you from?” “Where do you work?” “What do you do?” “Where did you go to school?” “What’s your email? What’s your social security number?” Alright, so most men won’t go that far, but it helps illustrate the point.
9 Nice Guys Finish...With the Rest of the Pack
Don't get us wrong, being nice is not necessarily a bad thing. Being too nice is where the problems come into play. Instead of bending over backwards to accommodate a new woman in your life, treat her like a human! Treat her similarly to the way you’d treat a friend. Joke with her like she’s your sister. Tease her. Get her to appreciate your interactions, and know that you aren't just putting her on a pedestal. Trying to be way too nice is boring. It also gives the impression that you’re “kissing up” to her. The last thing you want a girl thinking is that she is out of your league, and if you are overly nice, that may be exactly what she thinks, and it won’t be good.
8 Don’t Delay, Approach Her Today
Hesitation is a killer. It ruins everything. It’ll diminish her confidence in you. And it’ll diminish your confidence in yourself. And you will start overthinking everything. From there it is a downward spiral into perpetual loneliness.
7 Touch and Go, Touch and Go
6 Don’t Be an Ignoramus
5 Oh Lawd, Please Don’t Let Me Be Misunderstood
Do you know about The Animals? Eric Burdon? No? Great classic rock band, look them up. Anyway, in one of their songs they sing “I’m just a soul whose intentions are good/ oh lord please don’t let me be misunderstood.” It’s a great song, and it has a good take away: It’s really easy to misunderstand a woman, and it’s easy to be misunderstood yourself.
4 This Song Isn’t All About You, Man
This goes hand in hand with point four. Indeed, it’s basically an extension of the point. It is easy to hurt someone by giving them the impression that they’re taking a back seat. Anytime you’re putting something else in front of her, she’ll feel it. Balance it out by planning something nice to do with her, keep shifting your focus back and forth.
2 Trust, Who Needs It?
1 Remember To Appreciate Her
This is a critical point. It nods to a lot of the other points we talked about. Basically, men have the propensity to ignore the value that specific women bring to their lives. If you can’t appreciate her, you’re going to lose her. Sometimes men get in the habit of taking relationships for granted, or just checking it off the list like getting into a relationship was some task to complete. Really though, the best kinds of relationships are synergistic ones. A relationship is best when both partners are supportive, they challenge each other, they comfort each other, and they laugh with each other. If you’re not consciously appreciating the value she brings to your life, you’re making a big mistake!
Sources: mensfitness.com, yourtango.com
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