When I was younger I attended a Catholic elementary school. My sexual education could be summed up with the phrase "do not do it." Abstinence was the key to having a healthy life and sex would be something you engage in after marriage. While that was my stance for several years, when I did decide to engage in sex I made sure I did my research beforehand.
Nobody really knows what they are doing the first time they have sex, you just kind of hope for the best. Despite the hours of Googling, things still may arise that are unexpected or awkward. No matter what issues may come up, nothing will be worse than if you and your partner are unable to communicate any concerns. The more relaxed you are towards sex (but still careful, protection is not overrated), the more comfortable you both will start to become with your own bodies and sense of self.
Sex can make you feel incredibly desired and attractive, if it is engaged in a way that makes you feel that way. Unfortunately for many individuals, they miss several key steps when creating a healthy sexual experience.
There are common sexual mistakes, mistakes that far too many people make. So do not feel bad if you show up here somewhere, just remember that sexuality is an ever-expanding topic. You and your partner(s) will grow as a couple, and as a result, what you liked on month 1 may be different from what you like after 5 years. The only way to make sure you are satisfied in 5 years, is to make sure you can communicate your thoughts on sex clearly. You owe it to both of yourselves to have sex be a source of confidence in your relationship, and it is never too late for that to happen.
10 You Were Unable To Maintain A Rhythm
9 Your Nerves Prevented You From Communicating What You Wanted
8 You Thought Foreplay Was Overrated
7 There Was An Issue And You Got Upset Instead Of Communicating
6 You Only Had One Position
5 You Were ‘Lazy’ And Unwilling To Change
4 You Faked An Orgasm
3 You Didn't Use Lube
2 You Didn't Look At Or Interact With Them
1 You Assumed Every Person Was The Same
It can be a life-shocking moment when you realize that your super smooth move that worked on your ex-girlfriend of one year, does not work on everyone. Every person is different and may require different techniques to reach an orgasm. Other individuals may never reach one, but what is important is that you are communicating openly with each other. If you are so rigid in your mindset that every session needs to be the same way, then you are never going to expand sexually and that’s a depressing thought for both of you. The longer you are with someone, the more you should also feel open to mixing things up so it can be great to just learn from the get-go that everyone likes different things and that in itself is a wonderful thing.
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