When it comes to relationships, there is no real way of knowing if the first person who you fall in love with will end up being the person who you marry. This is especially true when you consider how many individuals develop their first love at a fairly young age and marry that partner, and it is largely the type of love that is talked about. While fairy tales would suggest to us that it happens all the time, that is not the case, and several people only find the person who they are supposed to marry after they have been tossed through the ringer a few times.
As exciting as love can be, it can also bring on many negatives. There are disadvantages that are going to pop up if you marry your first love, but it doesn’t mean there are not advantages as well. Not only is that person, logically, the first person you’ve dated, but it is also the first person you’ve loved and they’ve seen you go through all the ups and downs that accompany life.
There are great parts about that, and like everything in life, you cannot receive the good without some of the bad too. These are the 20 realities of marrying the first person who you ever fell in love with.
Let's start with the advantages...
17 You Know The Person Incredibly Well
16 It’ll Feel Fun
15 You Love Them More Than You’ve Loved Anything
14 They’ve Seen You Through Life’s Stages
13 You Can Relate To Popular Media
12 You May Feel Extra Strongly
11 You Have More Shared Memories
10 You Don’t Have A Crazy Ex
9 You May Inspire Your Kids
There can be a nice sense of ignorant bliss when you are falling in love and have the chance to marry your first love. Some people have issues from past relationships that they bring to their current one and, while it is not always intentional, it can be damaging. Does your partner have really bad trust issues? Well, maybe they’ve been cheated on by all of their partners. If you and your partner are each other's first love, you should hope that part of what makes that love is the trust that you’ve build. It’s nice to know you could live without your partner, but it can be even nicer to know that you’ll never have to.
8 Missed Experiences
7 Your Sense Of Identity
6 What If They Aren’t Right For You?
5 You May Get Married Earlier
4 How Much Do You Really Love Them?
3 You May Have Different Libidos
2 Do You Know How You Handle Conflict?
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