20 years ago, this wouldn't have been an issue, but this generation has a new problem to deal with – and it's picture-sharing. These days, we're all in constant contact with each other, and nearly everyone is only a text message away. Drunk or sober, it's easy for us to get in touch with that special someone we've been talking to, even if they aren't picking up the phone. It's safe to say that can be disastrous.
The movement against unsolicited pics has been loud and growing fast, but given that 92% of single women have received one in the past five years, it seems like lots of guys still aren't getting the message. So if you're one of those guys that still sends pictures of his junk without asking first, then let me enlighten you. Women hate this, and you need to stop. Even if you've had a good reaction once, and even if you think you've got a great-looking member, you've got to face facts and respect people you're messaging. Most women aren't interested. In fact, it turns them off. It's almost certainly not going to encourage her to return the favor, in case you were wondering.
So what should you do instead? Well, keep your phone away for a while when you're drunk, but also, make more of an effort to connect with the woman you're talking to, and you'll definitely get a better result. Here are some ideas for pictures you can send to that girl you've been talking to - ones that she'll actually want to receive.
10 Your Lunch
9 Your Outfit
8 The Weather
7 (Clothed) Gym Selfies
Don't go overboard, but if you're spending time working out, then it demonstrates that you take care of yourself. Something self-depreciating rather than braggy is likely to work best here. Don't show off how much you can lift, as you can casually drop that into conversation later if it's impressive. Tell her you're exhausted, or you're leaving leg day until tomorrow, or you're looking forward to being back in street clothes. Again, the idea is to give her an insight into you and your life.
6 Your Pet
5 Your Work
4 Careful Selfies
3 Hands, Arms & Wrists
2 A Smile
1 Anything That's Not On Social Media
Showing her photos that aren't available for public consumption, even if they're of something totally benign, shows a willingness to open up to her and talk to her, specifically. You're not trying to grab likes or comments – you're just having a natural conversation with her that you're not sharing with anybody else. She'll notice that, and she will appreciate seeing parts of your life that other people don't necessarily have immediate access to.
It's worth paying attention, too, to see if you're getting pictures that she hasn't shared anywhere else. If you are, then that's definitely a good sign.
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