They say a closed mouth doesn’t get fed. That statement is painfully true when it comes to obtaining satisfaction in the bedroom. Sometimes we just want it a certain way but are afraid of offending our partner or killing the intimacy. And unfortunately for us ladies, sex has been seen as a male dominated activity; however, it is a new day and age and we like to have our egos stroked too! Sex can be a beautiful thing between both partners if it’s with somebody you have amazing chemistry with and feel comfortable being with. And one of the main keys to great chemistry is great communication. So, next time you’re in the bedroom with your lady, remember these 15 things she probably wants you to tell her during sex! You’re welcome.
15. She Wants You To Moan Her Name
Okay, so maybe she doesn’t want to hear a loud, top-of-the-lungs, Tarzan moan, but women most definitely like to hear a slight sound of relief to know that we are working it in all the right places, and doing a good job doing so. Dull sex is simply boring. Try saying her name right before you climax to give her the confidence she truly deserves! Whatever you do just make sure it is her name you scream and not your ex’s.
14. That She’s The Best To Ever Do It
As women, of course it is natural for women to wonder about the other women you have had sex with in the past. Although she probably doesn’t want you to compare her to your ex (trust us), if it is in the name of telling her that she’s the best, she is more than likely all ears and happy to hear about it. Telling your lady that she’s the best at oral, riding, or even kissing, will undoubtedly give her every reason to keep going.
13. She Looks Beautiful
Naturally, women have stretch marks, moles or unique birthmarks which we have come to love personally, but may second-guess them while being naked around another person. It is completely normal to feel a little self-conscious while being naked in front of the person you like but thankfully it doesn’t have to be too awkward. If you sense some tension while undressing your partner, it is more than likely because she isn’t used to being naked around another person. You can help alleviate some of the tension and help relax her by telling her she looks beautiful naked. She will feel even more sexy and confident the next time around.
12. She Smells Delicious
Every woman has their own unique aroma; however, sometimes your lady may like to go the extra mile and invest in nice smelling moisturizers and perfumes to make sure she smells extra delicious and irresistible. Women love a partner who pays extra attention to even the minor details. If you acknowledge that she smells good, it shows that you are paying attention and enjoy basking in her scent, which she will surely appreciate.
11. You Love Her Eyes
Eyes are the window to the soul and they can also turn ordinary sex to extraordinary sex. Exchanging eye contact with your partner is passionate and makes sex a lot more intimate. Whether she’s looking up or down at you, giving her eye contact and telling her her eyes are beautiful reassures that you are paying attention to her and that you admire her eyes (and not only her other assets).
10. She Tastes Good
While she may not know what to think while you’re passionately kissing her neck or licking downstairs, she does like to be rest assured that she at least tastes good. We know we don’t taste exactly like raspberries or peaches though, so telling your woman you enjoy going downstairs and enjoy the way she tastes is greatly appreciated. You can thank us later.
9. She Feels Soft
Sometimes, being a woman isn’t always a walk in the park (surprised?). We are constantly wondering if we smell fresh enough, if our hair is perfect, if our make-up looks good, or second-guessing if we shaved our legs good enough. Even on those days that she may be slightly prickly, it is nice to know that you still think her skin is soft. After all, with the facial and chest hair women tolerate with men, it is only fair for you to appreciate the smooth areas of her body!
8. That You’ll Make Breakfast
Throughout the generations, they’ve always said that a woman’s place is in the kitchen, but in today’s world the tables have turned and sometimes she just wants to kick back and have her partner prepare her a sandwich after working up a sweat in the bedroom. Not only is this a nice change of pace, but it gives a sense of mutual respect when it comes to sex. Bonus points if you order pizza or make her favorite dessert!
7. Her Downstairs Area Is Pretty
Whether you call it a meat curtain or a pink taco, it is known that a woman’s genitalia comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. Each one is unique in its own way and what better way to show your appreciation for her uniqueness than by complimenting how pretty it is. For some women, our private parts still seem like a foreign abyss on our bodies. This is why she would love to hear that while you’re exploring down there, you discovered a beautiful paradise (or something along those lines).
6. That You Want To Please Her
It is true that most women fake their orgasms or sadly never experience one. If you make it your mission to tell your partner that you won’t stop until she’s satisfied, then you have exceeded her expectations. Don’t be the guy that passes out right after five minutes. Take the time and pay attention to her body language, and pay attention to what she does and doesn’t like. This makes sex much better for both partners. After all, she did not undress herself just so you can snore in her ear five minutes later!
5. Dirty Words
This one should come as no surprise to most readers, but we’ll mention it anyways. Within reason, we like a little dirty talk in the bedroom. As long as you are not calling us out of our name a little bit of rough talk certainly gets the oven preheated. Guiding her and being a little assertive all while making sure she is pleased along the way, shows off your confidence, and one thing is for sure, confidence is very sexy.
4. That You Want To Cuddle
Even after a rather rough session and you’re both sweating and panting, trying to catch your breath, letting your partner know that you want to cuddle with her is admirable. Whether or not she feels the same way after your steamy session is a whole other question (and we won’t get into detail here), but knowing that you want to be held or want to hold her shows you have a soft side, and shows that sex isn’t the only important thing in your relationship.
3. She’s A Great Kisser
We see it in the movies and we read about it in book. Kissing is a key component in foreplay and nothing can kill the mood worse than an awful kisser. Yes, we’ve all experienced a bad kisser or two in the past, which make us appreciate little things like fresh breath, smooth lips, and just enough tongue action. Therefore if she’s doing a great job at French kissing, don’t hesitate to let her know. She will certainly appreciate it.
2. She Doesn’t Have To Return The Favor
Nothing says gentleman quite like pleasing your lady downstairs and not necessarily expecting anything in return (or not right away, at least). Sure, it is very unlikely that you don’t want to be pleased back, but there are a few men out there who thoroughly enjoy giving oral sex and do not expect anything back, especially if it is her first time in bed with you. This makes her feel safe and that you genuinely like her. Bravo to those men.
1. That You Love Her
Last but most definitely not least, the four letter word that scares some away but brings most couples closer: love. You probably guessed it, sex without love may prevent feelings and heartbreak temporarily but it won’t be long until you’ll want someone to share passionate and meaningful sex with. There is not a more intimate time to tell your lady that you love her than during sex. You can be sure that it will make sex worth her while (and your’s too for that matter).