Is your sex life with your girlfriend beginning to lack a little “edge”? Do you feel like you’ve tried everything over and over again? Maybe you’re right. But most probably, you’re wrong. There’s more you can do.
Women can have surprising fantasies; it wouldn’t be the first time you read this. But what about your female partner? Have you ever considered she might enjoy watching you give her a private show? Or that she might be attracted by your trusty dog?
Women think about a lot of kinky stuff and sometimes are ashamed and shy of these needs. But if you pop the question, the chances are that she might be kinkier than you think. Looking through the Internet, talking to friends and going on Whisper taught me that women have fantasies that can be very surprising.
That’s why I’ve come up with the Top 12 Sexual Fantasies You Didn’t Know She Liked. So now, you’ll know what to ask about to spice up your most intimate moments that are important in everybody’s love life.
12. Senses Deprivation
Chances are she’s all the way into being tied up and perhaps even blindfolded. You can even make it spicier by making her listen to some sexy music with earplugs. Depriving her of her senses, other than what her skin can communicate to her; it makes the sensations she’ll receive more intense. It basically makes her whole body much more sensitive to your touch.
If you’re a giver-type of lover, you should try it out. But be cautious if it’s your first time because she is vulnerable and without the necessary established trust, this can be a bad experience for her. But go ahead, ask her! She’s definitely into this!
11. Back-Door Fun
Anal sex has been popularized in recent years with the intensifying presence of pornography’s influence in our sexuality. Though not all women are into back-door experiences, most will be at least curious or turned on by the idea of it.
It’s not mandatory to go all the way in there, some women will appreciate the stimulation of the anal area with caresses and applying pressure during intercourse. Before you go this route, make sure she is prepared mentally as this is the key to ensuring her enjoyment. She needs to be relaxed. Like, more than ever.
People can be attracted to other partners and another person. However, women can be attracted to stallions for an apparent reason: the size of their reproductive organ. That’s why horses are a female-fantasy favorite.
When it comes to dogs, the fact that they are easy to find and close to us for such activities helps a lot. Some women have really strong relationships with their dogs because of this practice. I read quite a few stories on the internet about that it’s a rather normal fantasy for women, and it looks like it doesn’t always remain in the “fantasy” world…
Often, female fantasies are strongly linked to emotions and desires. Being wanted, being desired excites women. While most people assume women want their partners to be faithful, some of us fantasize about the inclusion of other girls or boys who act as accessories.
Not only this, but some partners want to watch other people together. Not necessarily their own partners. Sometimes, couples like to find another duo and watch them go at it, without joining the action. It’s, often, a big turn on for women.
8. Rubbing Herself On Stuffed Toys
Most of the time, you’d believe women prefer something stiff to please themselves. However, some women prefer the softness and comfort of stuffed toys. The first time I heard about that was in college, when one of my friends explained that she was satisfying herself by rubbing her lady parts against stuffed toys.
Everything is about the friction you create by rubbing your genitalia against the toy. Most women install themselves on their knees, placing the object between their legs before thrusting back and forth. If your partner is into this, it could probably be an interesting thing to witness.
Most people who do not practice BDSM to its full capacity think of this as a spanking game of pain and pleasure. Though not technically false, spanking is only one little part of what BDSM truly is. Some women are turned on by being submissive, even acting as slaves meant to satisfy their partners. This can lead to humiliation games, which needs to be done with absolute respect and trust between the partners, or it can turn out bad.
Also, there’s the opposite: some women will want to dominate you. It can be as simple as giving orders, deciding what’s next or teasing you without allowing to touch them. A lot of men are, in fact, turned on when they are being dominated by their partners. Once more, trust and respect is the foundation of such games.
6. Male Performers
When I write male performers, I don’t mean strip teasers. Though some people really like to go to strip clubs, there are other things that, sometimes, women like to see men do. For example, I read a story about a girl who loved to watch men please themselves through nylon socks.
Basically, some women like to watch you enjoy yourself, much like you probably enjoy doing just the same. This is kinky, and a slightly out of the ordinary fantasy we know about, mainly because the roles are reversed.
5. Lots Of Partners At Once
Believe it or not, but some women actually pay interesting sums of money and sign contracts to book a gang bang with as many as 90 men. The practice seems to have come from the porn industry via Eastern Europe.
A lot of women are turned on by the idea of being used and abused, and even more by a lot of men at the same time. And some actually realize this fantasy. In some swinger clubs, there are gang bang events to satisfy these needs people have.
4. Using Toys On You
Whisper. That’s where I started talking with a girl who was pushing the female domination game farther than most. She had a friend with benefits, a great guy who she appreciated a lot, but she used him as a toy, literally.
What she did to him (he was into it, don’t worry) was use a strap-on, as well as other sex toys, on him. Because the prostate is a very sensitive spot in the man’s anatomy (the male G-Spot, they say), some men really like it stimulated. And it turns the lady on a lot to be the one in charge!
3. Water Sports
For those who are not used to the term, we’re talking about sex involving urine. What we usually think about when we’re talking about water sports is what’s known as golden showers. Frankly, if your partner has some domination or submission fetishes, this could very well interest her. Both partners have to be willing, however, as this can be really degrading and disgusting for the one who is showered.
Also, water sports does not only include golden showers. One of the techniques included in this practice is to put a towel underneath the lady’s bottom as she pleases herself or is being pleased before she allows herself to pee. Peeing while being pleasured makes the clitoris bigger and more sensible, which can lead to ameliorated orgasms.
2. Everyday Objects Turned Into Sex Toys
We’ve all made jokes involving bananas and cucumbers. But be aware that it isn’t only fruits which can be used by your lady partner to quench her thirst, so to speak. Sex toys are great for some women, true. But sometimes, it’s not what they want.
Why? Mainly because they might not feel attracted to something that’s made for pleasuring them. Some women need to be kinkier and use an everyday object, like a glass decorative fruit or a large pen, to be satisfied. Also, it’s possible she doesn’t enjoy the material in which the conventional sex toys are made, and prefer other surfaces.
1. Performing In Front Of You With Another Woman
This one is among your greatest fantasies as it is hers. Performing with someone else, another women, in front of you can be a huge turn on for everybody. It’s possible she’ll want you to join them, and it’s also possible she tells you to stay back and only watch.
This is really kinky and exciting by being halfway into voyeurism and exhibitionism. She will see and feel you being turned on by what you’re watching. Once more, trust is primordial to include a third person in an intimate relationship as it can trigger jealousy and other negative feelings. But if you’re a solid couple and into this, why not give it a try?