When anybody talks about virginity, it is natural to think back on your first time (if you’ve had it) and reminisce at the disaster or triumph that it was. Finally stepping into the sexual world can be exciting, enticing and sometimes really nerve racking. Celebrity or not, everyone goes through the motions (pun intended) of having sex for the first time.
The importance of losing your V card can make some people stress out or have them romanticizing making their first time to just be perfect. In reality, losing your virginity is not always in a candle lit room, being adorably in love and playing each scene out like a movie. Sometimes we end up regretting it or kicking ourselves because we did it with the wrong person. Celebrities are no different with losing it in terrible places with awful people and waking up wishing it never happened.
Sometimes people believe that sex is best kept for after marriage and abide by the rules of a religious lifestyle. Sometimes people rush into sex to officially just not be a virgin anymore. Believe it or not, sometimes the first time ends up being something that connects two people for the rest of their lives. You always remember your first, whether it was good or bad. Whether you engaged in the act for physical or emotional reasons, the first time is definitely a life changing experience. Once it’s done, there is no going back.
Check out the following 10 celebs who lost their virginity to a non-famous person.
10. Will Ferrell
It is no secret that funny men always get the girls. Any guy that can make me laugh, I appreciate immensely over some six-packed abs guy. Humor is the way to a girl’s heart and apparently her pants. Will Ferrell lost his virginity at 21 years old to a girl in college. His mother had thought he lost it to a very promiscuous girl and was slowly losing her mind. She told him, “I’m telling you now if you slept with this girl, you’d better slap a condom on.” That seems quite personal for a mother/son relationship, but it’s clear that Will is a mama’s boy.
Ferrell has no regrets about his first time stating that it seemed like it was the way it was supposed to happen.
9. P. Diddy
This bad boy player for life started his sex game off with a bang. At 13 he decided he wanted a piece of the action and used his business skills early on in the game. “When I was 13, I felt like I was an [adult] star because I’d been watching [adult entertainment] for so long. In the Bronx you could get a hotel room for an hour. I always had $20 or $30 to take a chick to a hotel,” he says. As romantic as he sounds, P. Diddy went on to be happily married. He has stated that he is proud to love sex. “You might catch me in an [adult] store at any given moment. It ain’t nothing I’m ashamed of,” said the hip hop mogul.
Despite being married, Diddy raps about the fast lane, girls, sex and money. Sex is a huge part of what makes music sell these days, and Diddy has just expressed what he loves best.
8. Matthew Fox
When it came to losing his virginity, this fox was anything but lost. He remembers losing it at the young age of 12 to a girl whom he chooses not to name. “It wasn’t her first time. I can actually see the event in my mind’s eye, like photographs. It was in Dubois, Wyoming. It happened literally on the ground by a river,” Matthew Fox said. Perhaps the location was the only spot the young duo could find in order to do the deed as parent’s aren’t exactly thrilled at the idea of their 12-year-old having sex. It is clear that Matthew was never a bad seed judging by his life today and was probably just young and eager to go early on in life. Having sex on the ground by a river can definitely sound romantic and it is proof that losing it is not always in the locations you would imagine.
7. Khloe Kardashian
It is not always glitz and glamour in the Kardashian household. There are definite times in Khloe‘s life when everything seemed less than perfect. Losing her virginity was one of those times. “I felt so disgusted with myself. I stopped talking to him and actually didn’t have sex for 3 years after that because I knew I was young and I knew I wasn’t ready. I should have listened to my parents”, Koko stated.
Her overall message from this experience is to not be pressured into doing something that you are uncomfortable with based on how bad you will feel afterwards. If the person can’t respect your choices then it’s clear you are not missing out on a winner. Move on. The reality TV star couldn’t have said it better even though she had to learn the hard way about standing your ground.
6. Johnny Depp
There’s something about Johnny Depp that screams bad boy and it is majorly appealing. Why girls always fall for the bad boys? I don’t know, but there is no doubt that his mysterious air makes us all swoon. Not only was Depp smoking by the age of 12, he quickly followed with having sex at 13. He was in a band at the time that was actually pretty successful. He even had a deal set up in Los Angeles but it never fell through. His school principal was even a fan of Johnny’s that she encouraged him to pursue a career with the band and not finish school. He ended up losing it to one of his groupies. Depp later went on to actually marry the bass player’s sister.
Depp gained a lot of experience with the ladies over the course of his life and has finally settled down with blonde bombshell Amber Heard.
5. Tina Fey
We all love and adore Tina Fey for making us laugh countless times in many hit TV shows, stand ups and movies. What’s not to love? She’s smart, beautiful and wildly successful. Tina held onto her virginity with pride based on her moral and religious values. She is now happily married to Jeff Richmond and has given it up. “I couldn’t give it away. That’s just good Christian values or being homely,” Fey jokes.
We love that Tina finds humor in every situation. The experience of losing it is different for everybody and religious and moral upbringing definitely plays a role in the decision making process.
There is a sense of pride Fey exudes when looking back on her virgin days and absolutely no shame in her decision to stay pure until she was ready. Fey has her head on straight and that is portrayed in her solid home life and booming career.
4. Krysten Ritter
Like many girls flocking to bad boys like bees to hunny, Krysten Ritter was no different. Before being discovered in a mall allowing her career to take off, Ritter grew up in farmland Pennsylvania. She recounts her first time losing her virginity to her high school boyfriend from the farm. She says, “He was so angsty in bed. He was a real bad boy. Our first time was in his parent’s van.”
As romantic as that sounds, Ritter’s tale is not very different from many girls’ first time experiences. It is easy to feel like you are going to spend the rest of your life with your first real boyfriend and follow suit with sexual encounters. In a way, young love and virginity go hand in hand and despite the awful locations or awkward first time blunders, it is innocently romantic.
3. Lena Dunham
Funny girl Lena Dunham is best known for her hit show Girls which includes majorly uncomfortable sexual situations. It is realistic and a great portrayal of what happens in real life when it comes to sex. Dunham recalls her first time saying, “It hurt a little more than I’d expected but in a different way. Afterwards we laid there and talked and I could tell he was a really nice person. I commend myself for making a healthy albeit hasty partner choice.”
It is nice to see a positive role model expressing an intimate encounter that exudes a healthy and respectful relationship. She is proud of herself that she didn’t end up with a jerk who just jetted off after the deed was done. Getting to know your partner on a deeper level than just physical can make the sex so much better once you get to know your partner’s personality. Intimacy is not always physical in between the sheets.
2. Daniel Radcliffe
Speaking of getting to know your partner very well, Daniel Radcliffe‘s tale of his first time emphasizes that importance. “I’m one of the few people who seem to have had a really good first time,” the actor recalls. “It was with somebody I’d gotten to know very well. I’m happy to say I’ve had a lot of better sex since then, but it wasn’t as horrendously embarrassing as a lot of other people’s.”
There are so many things that can go wrong and make people stressed or nervous when stepping into a whole new world. Nobody is a professional their first time and the more you do it, the better and more comfortable you become. Being with someone who makes you feel at ease lifts all the pressure of feeling like you are bad or messing up at trying it for the first time. Injuries, farts, queefs, finishing too quickly or not at all and having no idea how to use a condom can kill the mood for some. Radcliffe thankfully eased into his first time with no regrets.
1. Adriana Lima
Adriana Lima is one of the sexiest woman in the world and there is no doubt that she would have no problems finding a guy that would want to sleep with her, or even stand next to her – anything! This supermodel was very serious about her virginity and has strong beliefs in how she wanted to preserve herself until marriage. “Sex is for after marriage,” the supermodel said. “Men have to respect this is my choice. If there’s no respect that means they don’t want me. When we’re traveling together for the first time, we sleep in different rooms. That’s the number one thing.”
It’s rare these days that many people, man or woman, save themselves for after the wedding day, so it is nice to see traditional values upheld in today’s world. Not only does Adriana make everyone melt with her tremendous sex appeal and beauty, but knowing she saved herself makes her even hotter.