If there is one thing that is relevant to your interests, it is understanding what it is that gets your man (or yourself) going. Of course, we are talking about dirty business because after all, the magic that happens in the bedroom. What is it that will really get a man feeling ready to rumble under the covers? We can help you find out with our list of 20 curious sex cravings all guys have. If you were ever wondering what it is that can rekindle the romance or boost libido, then you have got to check out these 20 tips.
All men have their differences, but there are just some things that are very similar across the board. With a little bit of insight into a man’s sexual fantasies, you could really get things hot and steamy in the bedroom in no time at all! Some men may find that they get really turned on by a girl with a naughty role-playing game. Others will want some toys to add to the mix. And yet others are vocal and need to have communication to feel the sexual desire and passion.
Whatever it is that gets things turned up, take a cue from our list and you should see your bedroom activities get a whole lot more exciting. After all, variety is the spice of life, so give these tips a try tonight!
20. A Girl Who Pleasures Herself
A guy totally gets turned on when his girl is comfortable with getting it on solo. Especially when he is allowed to watch. It is one huge turn-on to see a girl pleasure herself and get in the mood without the guy even doing anything. So, girls who want to get their guy going should first give him a little lesson on how to provide pleasure. Plus, if a guy can watch a girl get it on and touch herself, he can get some clues on what she likes and what will get her going in bed. So, it is a win-win for everyone.
19. A Sense of Humor in Bed
Sex can be unpredictable at times. There are moments when a bodily function or strange sound effect could escape us. So if a girl ends up letting out a queef or something, they should not sweat it. It turns out that guys actually greatly appreciate a sense of humor under the covers (or wherever else you get down and dirty). Laughter or just being playful and frisky can really turn a dude on. So girls who are more likely to drop their inhibitions at the door will do well with most men.
18. A Girl Who Knows What She Wants
Men can sometimes be a bit dense, sorry. They love to be with a girl who gives hints about what she wants in bed. Moreover, it can be a very effective turn-on to send messages or little notes about different ways to be pleasured. Also, there is no denying a girl who takes action and knows what she wants when it comes to dirty business. Guys go absolutely wild for a woman who leads him and takes the reins in where to touch, kiss, and so on. There may be a stereotype that the guy always has to initiate sex, but when a girl does it, magic happens.
17. A Peep Show for his Eyes Only
It is no secret that a dude is almost perpetually in the mood for some sexual action, but there are certain things that will really get him going. One of those things is when a girl gives him an exclusive peep show or specialized attention. When a man feels as though he is the only guy in the world, he is more likely to get excited and aroused in bed. This makes for awesome sexual experiences for both the man and woman. So girls who sit their guy down and do a strip tease, burlesque dance, or just give him all the attention will go far!
16. A Good Girl Gone Bad
It is such a classic fantasy, but sometimes we can forget that the oldies are goodies. We know the story of how girls are attracted to bad boys, but what about turning the tables for a bit? A man will go gaga when his goody-goody girlfriend or wife transforms herself into a sexy siren with a wild side. Going “bad” or “naughty” for a few hours will make for a steamy night, indeed. Guys will be totally turned on when his girl plays the innocent and then changes herself into a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it.
15. Getting Hot and Heavy
Well, duh. This one is a no-brainer, but let us elaborate on that. A guy wants to have a sexual encounter with his woman and then feel that “wow, I’ve never had that before” feeling. He wants his girl to leave nothing on the table; to just let it all out and to give him something that she has never given any man before. It is the ultimate fantasy for every dude to be that guy who gets it all from a girl. He wants to get busy with a woman and feel like he has never had that experience before.
14. Something New Every Once in Awhile
Variety is the spice of life, as they say. This could not be more true than in sexual relationships. Sure, a guy and his partner may have their favorite positions and playful strokes, but mixing things up every once in awhile will help to keep the spark alive and keep the man and woman guessing. A guy never wants to feel complacent during sex or that getting frisky is always the same. When his girl surprises him with a new position, a new toy, or some new dirty vocabulary, he is likely to get turned on in a whole new way. This is just what he was craving, even if he didn’t realize it.
13. Unexpected Action
Nothing is as sexy as a girl who surprises her man with sex. Whether that means waking him up with some licks down there or just jumping right into intercourse, every guy fantasizes about being woken up with some sexual action. Much too often the man is expected to start and keep things going. Spicing things up by having the girl initiate and come at the guy without prior notice is not only exciting, but totally hot. Most dudes love being caught off-guard, because let’s face it: they are always in the mood for some hot and heavy action under the sheets!
12. Some Raw Action
Doing a little something out of the ordinary can help to shake things up and keep the excitement alive. What guy doesn’t like a “take me away” attitude from his sexual partner? When a girl just opens herself up to a man and lets him have his way with her, he feels powerful, sexy, and completely confident in bed. Whether or not this is a usual thing for a sexual couple, trying it out could really spruce up the love life. Just being raw and real (maybe with some biting or clenching) will really get things going. It is worth a shot!
11. To be the Center of Attention
A lot of times, when we think about sexual interactions, we imagine the guy taking the lead and showing the girl where to go and what to do. And while that can be great and may be your tried-and-true routine, mixing things up and doing some role-reversal could help to reignite the sexual fire. By this we mean having the guy be the center of attention; the one who gets most of the action. When the girl gives the kisses, the licks, the movements…a guy eats that up. Making the man the prime recipient is a way to take sex to a whole new level.
10. Dirty Talk
Both men and women love to be talked to in a dirty manner. Whether it is through a text, a Post-it note left on the counter, or a love letter, some dirty talk is one of the male fantasies that help to create magic in the bedroom. And it is not only dirty talk; men love to get direction from their sexual partners. Girls who lead the way and tell a guy what she wants him to do to her will really boost his ego and his libido. So be sure to use your words and see what awesome things you can make happen under the sheets!
9. Let the Girl do the Work
When a guy can take a step back and just let a girl give him a break and pleasure him, there is a nice change of pace. Hey, a guy’s sexual performance might even peak because he feels less pressure to be perfect and constantly catering to his partner. When a girl climbs on top of a guy or takes his hands and shows him where to put them, the man feels like all of the guesswork is taken out. Now he knows exactly where he needs to be and what he needs to do. Just give it a try and see what happens.
8. Hearing His Name
It sounds super simple, and it kind of is, but when a man hears his sexual partner say his name, he instantly gets turned on and the reward centers in his brain just start going off like flashes of lightning. It doesn’t even matter how she says his name; she can yell it at the top of her lungs or whisper it in his ear. Either way, when the man hears his name being called, he feels a sense of gratification and a huge ego boost because he is doing something right and he is hearing that his woman is loving it.
7. Fulfilling His Fantasies
Engaging in some bedroom activities such as role-playing will help to get a guy into a more frisky mood as well as get him amped up for better sex. First of all, a girl has to open up that conversation with her guy and get to know what his deep and dirty secret daydreams are. Then she can get to work on making them a reality. Many men will find that playing the “sexy school teacher” or “naughty nurse” is a nice way to get his sex drive going and to make foreplay and beyond a whole lot more fun.
6. Watching Adult Videos with His Girl
Okay, so we know that a large majority of men enjoy watching x-rated stuff, but it is a uniquely different experience when he does it with his girl. As long as the woman is okay with it, then watching naughty videos together could be a way for a guy to really bond with his sexual partner. It is also a way for both the man and the woman see what each other likes as well as learn some new moves and tips along the way. Plus, there is also the added benefit of just getting both of you in the right mood to engage in some bedroom shenanigans.
5. A Girl Who Initiates Action
A take-no-prisoners kind of lass is just the thing some guys need to get a wild turn-on. Take a girl who is unsure in the bedroom and does not know what she wants. Not only is this uncomfortable, but it makes the dude have to do a ton of guesswork to figure out what will get the woman going. This can put a strain on the sexual experience and create a pretty drab night. Now, think about the same girl initiating the experience, moving her man’s hands around and placing them right where she wants them. Communication is important, too. Girls can directly tell their men what to do, which is super-hot and helpful.
4. Using Toys
Invest in some adult toys and you could really see a guy’s sex drive soar through the roof. Even if he has never tried them before, he has probably been curious about them. After all, there are a lot of movie stars and sex scenes on TV and in the movies that portray fun with sex toys. It could be a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold, something else…there are loads of possibilities. Plus this gives the couple a great excuse to engage in sexual intercourse; you need to try out the new toys! There’s a reason we say “boys and their toys.”
3. Super-Sexy Lingerie
When his girlfriend or wife hits up Victoria’s Secret, he knows that he is in for a treat. A new teddy, bra, or pair of panties is sometimes all it takes for a man to really feel a newfound desire for his sexual partner. The good news is that there are so many options and styles out there today. From the material, the print and pattern, and the cut, there is no telling what a girl is wearing underneath her clothes. To add even more fire to the bedroom, a girl can give her guy a whole show of taking off her clothes and revealing the goods.
2. A Confident Girl
No one is perfect, but a girl who owns her body is hot, hands-down. Even if you feel some kind of insecurity about your body, you can agree that when you just express yourself and unapologetically embrace yourself, you just exude confidence and sexiness. The same goes for a girl in the bedroom. Almost all men can agree that they are not looking for a woman with an idealized figure; they just want a woman who works what she’s got. That means being unafraid to let it out and show skin. Going nude doesn’t have to be a scary experience!
1. Girls Who Cross-Dress
This one may come as a bit of a surprise, but a lot of dudes can really feel hot under the collar when their girlfriend or wife cross-dresses. Just imagine a man coming home to find his girl wearing his button-down shirt with nothing else on. Or what about a woman who struts around in her panties and his tie? This is one of the best ways to spice things up on a whim. The truth is, this is a great male turn-on, so women should take note! Raid your boyfriend or husband’s closet and try on his clothes. He will absolutely love it.