What are you thinking about right after you have had sex? Hopefully the first thought is not, “A person actually let me touch them?!” However, it very well could be. After all, when it comes to getting down and dirty, there can be many thoughts that a guy is thinking both before and during the session. The man’s mind does not stop working when the deed is done. After any given session, there may be some thoughts that spring to his mind but whether he verbalizes them with you may be another thing.
It is important to remember that what they are thinking is largely going to depend on the type of relationship you have with the partner. Someone you have slept with 1,000 times is going to be thinking differently than someone that you just randomly picked up from the bar. Among all the different types of relationships out there that lead to intimacy, there are some universal truths to which most guys going to be able to relate. Sometimes, the first thought after a session is going to be something sweet or romantic, or it may be that you have been eyeing that bottle of water for the last 30 minutes and now is finally your time to make your grab for it!
No matter what it is he is thinking, what is important is that you are able to hopefully be engaging in a sex life that leaves you feeling desired. Sexuality is not something that is going to be easy, but it is worth putting in the time and effort to make sure it is something healthy. Also, keep in mind that the more you know about what your man is thinking after sex, the better you be able to please him during sex.
10. I Need A Drink And/Or Food
Let’s be honest, for some people, the most cardio that they will do that entire week may be in the bedroom. While you can’t exactly go and grab a drink in the middle of the action, there is no doubt that once the action stops, hydration may be one of the first things on your mind. Not to mention, expelling all that energy can make you hungry! Maybe next time you guys will order the pizza and then fool around. That way, by the time you’re done, the pizza should hopefully almost be arriving.
9. That Was Awesome
If this is not one of the first things you are thinking after sex, you may need to reevaluate who you are sleeping with. Sex should feel like a great connection with your partner and rumor has it that orgasms aren’t supposed to feel awful. There can be something really sweet about the big smile that you and your partner get on your faces after you knock boots. Once a session ends, it may also be a good time to talk about things that felt particularly good so that your partner knows to keep that in mind for future times.
8. I Need To Get Out Of Here
While it can be wonderful to have intimate time with your partner, not everyone in the world that is having sex is having it with someone they love. They may not even like the person. As a result, one of your first thoughts after that 2am Tinder rendezvous may be that you now need to start getting back home because you have a long day of work ahead of you. Now, I’ll be honest, I think this is incredibly rude and disrespectful to your partner but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t something that some guys start thinking right after the session wraps up.
7. Well, That Sucked
Unfortunately, not every session is going to be amazing, but hopefully if you’re with the right person, that they’ll still appreciate the effort. Sometimes issues may occur that cause you to jump the gun a little bit quicker than expected. Maybe you’re in a relationship with someone, but you guys aren’t sexually compatible. Spoiler alert, if you’re wondering if you’re compatible, thinking it sucked after having sex is not exactly a positive sign. If you are further questioning your level of sexual chemistry, find out if you are compatible here.
6. Can I Cuddle Now?
When a session starts to end, it can be natural to start to feel exhausted. After all, that was a lot of energy. Call it a cliché but nothing beats rocking a solid cuddle after you’ve had some lovemaking. Just make sure to crack a window if you feel the room is about 50 degrees hotter than it was an hour ago. Cuddling is also a great way to make sure both partners feel respected, and not like they were just used for sex. Just make sure that you’ve grabbed something to drink (and possibly eat) before you settle into a cuddle that is not going to be easy to leave.
5. Does She Need A Towel?
This one is just being realistic. Sometimes things can spill during sessions, lube gets on hands or on sheets and it can just be a mess. Sometimes you may even like to practice basic hygiene and wash your hands before and after any session. As a result, one of the things that may spring to mind when all is said and done is the location of a nearby towel. It might not be the sexiest or most romantic thought but it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t still happen and that it is not an incredibly valuable and practical thought to have.
4. I Love You
If you are with someone who you love, being intimate with them can be a really powerful and strong moment on any given day. As a result, when you are cuddled up after a satisfying session, one of the things that may be running through your mind is just how much you love your partner. Sex is an area where you should feel comfortable and safe and that extends to being able to express your feelings. Warning: this also may not be a good thing to verbalize if you are sleeping with someone that you met earlier that night.
3. I’m Sore
When it comes to exercise, which we all now know sex is, part of the ramifications is that you may feel quite sore afterward. After all, it’s a lot of leg movement and some positions may require the usage of several muscle groups. Not to mention that all that hot and sweaty action can lead to some cramping that can be less than ideal, especially if it occurs in less than ideal times (if you know what I’m saying). You just need to hope that if you are feeling sore at the end of a session, you’re also thinking about how it is totally worth it.
2. I’d Like To Sleep Now
Sex can be absolutely exhausting, and you’re most likely already in bed. It’s like entrapment! One of the nicest things can be to lie down with your partner, express yourself with love, and then cuddle into a nice night’s sleep. Make sure that if you are planning to sleep after the session, you still have the whereabouts to wash your hands after and make sure proper hygiene is executed. Rumor has it that orgasms can also make you sleepy, and you may even experience those in the bedroom if you’re with a partner!
1. Well, That Was New
One of the best things about being with a long-term partner is that your sex life is something that you may be able to feel is constantly being expanded. As a result, one of your thoughts after a session could be that something they did that was new and great. As mentioned above, this is a fantastic opportunity to verbalize this feeling to your partner so they know to remember it. Similarly, if you tried out new techniques during the session, now would be a good time to let them know how you felt about it. By having positive conversations when you notice that your partner has put in an active effort, you’re going to further reinforce that and it will be huge in establishing a healthy sex life going forward.
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