Sex is a topic that many have trouble talking about with the opposite sex. Men talk about sex with other men and women tell every detail to their girlfriends, which is why it’s surprising that men and women rarely speak to each other about sex. Men don’t believe women to be as sexual as beings as them, which is wrong. The difference between men and women is the way they see sex. Women are just as much sexual beings as men and our generation is slowly embracing women’s sexuality. Today’s society has begun to embrace female sex drive.
The following are ten pieces of advice women would like to give men in regards to love making. Although there is sometimes hesitation when discussing sex, this is not the case.
Men, I am giving you the opportunity to understand what she really likes and what to stop being so nervous about in the bedroom. This is a look into the deepest sexual corners of a woman’s mind in order to help you please her as much as possible. You’re welcome.
10. We aren’t as fragile as you think
A lot of men get nervous when it comes to roughing up a lady. Most men (the good ones) are brought up with the value that hitting a woman is bad. Hitting a woman is something that should never be done. However, during sex it is okay to break those rules. Many women get extremely turned on by a man roughing her up and controlling her. Whether a woman would admit to it or not, being put in their place is a huge turn on. Strength is an extremely attractive quality in a man and when he is able to put that strength on display in the bedroom it makes for some pretty phenomenal sex.
9. Routine is not always good
It is no secret that women get bored easily; they get bored with their hair, clothes and men. Getting bored in the bedroom is one of the worst places to be bored because it should always be exciting. Women want men to know that taking risks and switching it up in the boudoir is actually a good thing. By trying new positions it creates a new experience between you and your partner, which is a great way of discovering one another. There are so many fun things you and your partner can try to add a little extra spice to your relationship, which is why there is no excuse for boring sex.
8. A little romance goes a long way
After a certain amount of time of being with a woman, a lot of men reach a point of comfort. This tends to happen after you have been sleeping with the same person for a significant period of time. Men need to understand that romantic gestures are always appreciated by women and somehow always manage to turn them on. Every woman’s perception of romance fluctuates; some women dream of living in a romantic comedy while others are content with more simple gestures. Whatever it is that she likes, don’t forget about it because those little simple gestures truly do go a long way.
7. We like to be kissed other places but the mouth
We women love being kissed. Each kiss symbolizes something different to us; some men go for the forehead kiss while other keep it classic with the cheek. However, being kissed all over our bodies is truly a big turn on for us. Although all women have different preferences as to where they like to be kissed, most women do love getting kissed other places than their mouths. Kiss her neck, her stomach her thighs and her ass (literally). Kissing is a way of showing affection and feeling affection is a way of connecting to your significant other. Show her how much you care, one kiss at a time.
6. Our goal is to please you
Women love pleasing their men as much as possible, which is something not many men realize. Most women sincerely wish men vocalized what they enjoyed more during sex. Even though most of the time we as women have the ability to tell if our man is enjoying something, it turns us on to hear that we are doing something right. Women love acknowledgement not only in sex but also in life. As a man, you shouldn’t be afraid or shy to tell her what feels good. Telling her what you want and what you like should be something you are already doing. Women don’t have a penis, so we don’t always know what feels good, which is why in order to maximize the pleasure on both ends you should communicate with your woman.
5. Don’t forget the foreplay
Foreplay is almost like a forgotten art in the bedroom, especially after you have been sleeping with someone for a certain amount of time. Women love foreplay, it turns us on to tease our men, almost making them plead to be inside us. Most men need to understand that foreplay feels incredible for women and a lot of the time they will feel more pleasure during foreplay than during sex. Men, who always seem to be in a rush, tend to skip over foreplay and go directly to the main event. However, boys, take your time, enjoy each other and discover one another’s bodies. It will make for some incredible sex.
4. You don’t always need to be yourself
Role-play is an incredible way of spicing it up in the bedroom and it is also something women adore doing. It comes as no surprise that women love Halloween, so why not let them be whoever they want, any day of the week. Fantasy and role play is a huge part of sex and not many people feel comfortable enough to bring it up to their partner, which is sad. You should never feel ashamed or embarrassed to ask your partner to live out a fantasy and if you do you are probably with the wrong partner. Role-playing is a great way of sharing a sexual experience with one another and drawing you in closer.
3. You don’t always need to be in charge
We have already covered that women like being dominated. However, we forgot to mention that we also enjoy dominating. There is something extremely empowering about having a man on his hands and knees obeying your every word. Women enjoy taking control once in a while because it is empowering as well as satisfying. The idea is that their man is there to please them and getting to explore our boss side turns us on. Men, this can also be a huge turn on for you as well, watching your girl feel so powerful and in control is most likely going to end up being a huge turn on for you, killing two birds with one stone.
2. Talk dirty to me
Dirty talk is weirdly a grey area for many, which is surprising because it is something both men and women seem to enjoy. Women especially love dirty talk and for some reason not many men participate in it. There is a simple reason as to why women love dirty talk and that is because women are imaginative and vocal beings. Contrary to what you may believe, women don’t want to hear sweet sayings in their ears, they straight up want you to get dirty. Start simple and in no time to two of you will be dirty talking like pros. The great thing about dirty talk is that you can take it out of the bedroom and use it to spice up your relationship throughout the day. Sending her random texts stating what you would be doing to her if she was in front of you usually ends in wet panties – just saying it’s worth a try.
1. Size doesn’t matter
Contrary to what many believe, size does not matter. This is by far the biggest piece of advice women want to give men. Size is size, however just because someone is well endowed doesn’t mean they know how to use what they have. Sex has nothing to do with the size of the penis and everything to do with the way you make love. Bigger is not always better, in fact bigger almost never equals better. Men tend to over think the size of their members instead of learning to use what they’ve got. Trust me when I say this, size does not matter.