There are so many intimate techniques and position out there, and with that can come a lot of really awful ones! Lucky for you, we can sift through all the twisted limbs and hone in on some of the best positions for you. Focus on these ten bad boys if you’re looking to impress or pamper a lady in your life.
Everyone has their own preferences, their own go-to moves that feel comfortable and reliable. Those are great. But it’s also good to mix it up. Trying different positions can bring you closer to your partner, and you also have the opportunity to find a great new move to add to the repertoire. The bigger your catalogue of tried-and-true moves, the fresher your sex will be from night to night.
We’ve compiled a list of ten heavy-hitters that focus on her. Now, there’s no reason for you men to start worrying. They’re sex moves, after all. And since they’re sex moves, they’re bound to feel good for everyone involved. These moves incorporate elements that aren’t always present in a move like the Missionary. Sure, it’s an undeniable classic, but it’s also an overused standard. Try some of these and see if you can’t bring even more satisfaction to your number-one woman.
10. Speed Bump
Starting things off right with a little stack action. How does this one work?
The woman lies down (best bet for this one is probably the bed) on her stomach. The man enters her from behind. Then you get after it. All the skin on skin contact means things will heat up quickly, but no one will last long in this position.
This is a great position for men of average (or less) size in the you know what department. Entering from behind with her legs close together mean you’ll feel bigger. And your little guy will rub against more of her vaginal walls, which will feel great for both of you.
9. Manhandle Her
Maybe you both decide to hop in the shower at the same time. Or maybe you can’t get enough of each other as you start prepping your dinner-time meal. Either way, if you’re looking for some standup action, manhandling her is a great way to take care of your woman in all the right ways.
You enter her from behind while you’re both standing up. She may need to lean forward for easier access on your end. Once you’re inside, you’re in a perfect position to stimulate her other areas. All she has to do is relax against you while you take her to pleasure town.
8. Against the Wall
No sense in excluding this one when she’ll like it just as much! For this position you’re both standing up. Instead of going back-to-front, the two of you are facing each other. It’s another great move for surprising her with some “anytime” passion.
This move works best when the two of you are similar heights. The bigger the difference in heights, the harder the move will be to pull off. If she has strong legs, that’s even better. She can wrap one (or both) around you and the two of you can have some real fun.
7. Edge of The Bed
Word on the street is this position will get her well on her way to euphoria.
The man sits on the edge of a bed to start. Your feet should be on the floor. Then the woman can climb onto you, sitting on your lap as you enter her. The bed is a good place for this because she’ll be able to rest her feet behind you. It works best when you grab her hands to steady her. Feel free to support her with your hands in whatever way makes you both feel secure in the position.
She’ll love this position because you’ll enter her pretty deeply, and you’ll do most of the thrusting so she’ll get to enjoy the ride.
6. The Spider
It’s really more like “the crab” but that doesn’t sound very appealing at all, does it? We didn’t think so.
The “crab” visual will help you picture how this position is supposed to go. The two of you should climb onto the bed. If it’s a small bed, you, sir, should climb on there first. Both of you will be on your back, knees bent, on your hands/elbows, as if you were crab walking. She’ll need to walk herself up so that her legs are over your legs, near your hips. Then you can enter her, and the two of you can begin the less-common “rocking” motion that makes this position work. You’ll both have a great view of the action, and each other’s faces, which will give you both a hot, intimate experience.
5. The Butterfly AKA the Face Sitter
What’s a list about “her pleasure” without some tips on going down? This position takes a classic oral move and twists it on its head. Kind of. YOU are the one lying down on the bed. She gets to climb on top of you, putting her knees to either side of your head. The you get to go after it.
This face-sitting position gives her more control over the action, which is something she might like. You can use your hands to support her butt, or even reach up for some nipple stimulation. We suspect the two of you will figure it out!
This is a great move, and it’s easy! The two of you lie next to each other, side by side, and you enter her with your chest up against her back. You know, like you’re spooning. She’ll be able to twist her upper body if she wants to turn and face you. Or she’ll be able to face away from you and really get into it. Either way you have good access to her front and her back. Kiss her shoulders, gently pinch her breasts. You really can’t go wrong here.
3. Leg Up
Hopefully you don’t have any competition for the lady of your dreams. But if you do, this little number might do the trick. If things are getting heavy and she’s lying on her back, you can lift her legs up as you enter her. Either let her feet rest against your chest, or if that doesn’t work you can let her ankles rest over your shoulders. This will really open things up for you two, letting you penetrate very deeply. That extra-deep penetration could really hit the spot for her. Look to her for guidance on this one, as the new depth might mean she’ll need you to thrust more slowly.
The primal classic. There’s no way to ignore this one. This position gives the woman a good bit of control, letting her adjust her body to get your penetration feeling just right. It also frees you up for some clitoris stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is one of the best/most common ways for a woman to reach orgasm. If you have a position that lets you stimulate her G-spot, her clitoris, and her breasts, you have it made. When you add in the element of her increased control, all of a sudden you have a real power-house of a sex position.
The rodeo queen, if you know what we mean.
This position is another all-star move, for many of the same reasons that Doggy-Style is great.
The woman can really control things from up on top. Speed, penetration depth, and even (to some degree) the penetration angle. It’s the triple-threat.
Add to that the easy accessibility for the man or the woman, and all of a sudden you have a sex position that can do no wrong. If you’ve never tried it, it’s definitely worth giving this move some airtime the next time things turn sexy for you. Don’t forget the lube!